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Aussie escort says sex workers are being left to work the streets

AUSTRALIAN sex workers have been left homeless, losing hundreds of dollars a week resorting to dangerous street hooker work because of a US law which has forced the closure of classified advertising websites.

Melbourne-based escort Alice Grey said she is one of the lucky ones even though she is copping losses of around $1000 a week because of the closure of classified advertising websites Backpage and Cracker.

However, people she knows in the industry have been left out of work or struggling in ultra-competitive brothel and parlour work to get by.

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“I am extremely thankful that I managed to build up my brand before these sites closed down, but I’ve lost a massive chunk of my clients,” the 24-year-old with a Masters in Genetics told

“The industry is not a happy place at the moment and there are people, my friends, out there who are homeless because of this.”

The closure of popular classified advertising websites such as Craigslist, Backpage and Cracker began when US President Donald Trump signed a combined bill into law known as FOSTA (Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act) SESTA (Stop Enabling Sex-Trafficking Act) in the hope of combating illegal sex trafficking online

Alice Grey said her friends have been left homeless because of the website closures.

Because Aussie sex workers use the America-based websites to advertise their services, President Trump’s new law directly affects them.

“I went without work for almost three weeks when Backpage and Cracker websites first went down, and had no way to ensure short notice to pay my bills during that time without using savings,” Ms Grey said.

“I was lucky to have had savings, and that this time without work was limited. Backpage went down on April 7 and a friend of mine hasn’t had any sex work since.”

She said others have tried going to brothel work which, in Melbourne, can pit up to 60 girls against each other as they compete for maybe just one client.

“Sometimes you are lucky to get one client and, even then, the parlour takes a cut of up to 60 per cent,” she said.

“So you might be working a 12-hour overnight shift and just make a lousy $100.

“That isn’t enough to cover your phone bill, electricity bills, rent or food. Sometimes you don’t even make enough to cover your Uber trip home for the night.”

She said sex workers in desperation are turning to the streets to find work, which she says is far more dangerous than advertising on the net. She says terrified Aussie workers have heard horror stories of a recent spike in sex workers being raped, abducted and murdered in the US as they worked on the streets, but they feel as if they have no other option.

However, another sex worker Jessie Lee Pierce, told Cracker and Backpage were “vile” because they attracted “sick” clients.

She said one wanted to act out a rape scene with her and another asked her if she would have sex with animals.

Jessie Lee Pierce says Cracker and Backpage attracted “vile” clients. Picture: Twitter

“My worst scary inquiry experience was from a man who wanted me to visit his house,” Ms Pierce said. “Once I was there he wanted to tie me up, gag me, strangle me, and he described what sounded like an eiry organised rape.

“The explicit detail of the sexual acts really got to me. I never responded and I contacted Backpage and asked them to immediately pull my ad and never used the website again.

“I’ve seen ads on Backpage where girls were advertising unprotected sex for $50, that attracts a certain demographic.”

However, Ms Pierce added she was disapointed by the closure of the classified website because of the impact it has had on her friends & associates in the sex industry.

Ms Grey said another massive blow from the closure of the major classified advertising websites was the lack of flexibility offered by the other existing websites.

She said the classified websites allowed workers to “bump” their advert with an extra small fee, so they could promote themselves when it suited them to work.

Some of the remaining websites have a flat fee to place adverts, which means it’s more difficult for escorts to work part-time, for example to support their studies or other work.

Ms Grey added the closures have made travelling to work in other states has now become financially risky, because escorts can’t “bump” their adverts when they arrive at a new venue.

“Travelling interstate to work is extremely important for escorts,” she said. “It’s like when a band releases a new album, you have to go out there and promote yourself and your brand.

“If you get five clients, it would be a good trip. But, since Backpage and Cracker websites have closed down it’s become far too risky to make the interstate trips.”

Henry Sapiecha

Published by Henry, on June 17th, 2018 at 6:31 pm. Filled under: JOBS CAREERS,PROSTITUTION,WEB SITES,WOMEN,WORK SEX. Tags: , , , , , | No Comments |

Samantha the sex robot is now here and so are the comments

Samantha the sex robot “who has a brain and can tell jokes” is finally available for $4,280. She can even switch from sex mode to family mode. Because what wife and kids doesn’t wanna hang with daddy’s new sex robot?

Most importantly though, people seem to be less worried about the upcoming robopocalypse and more concerned about her becoming just another needy girlfriend.

Henry Sapiecha

Published by Henry, on June 11th, 2018 at 10:44 pm. Filled under: ANDROIDS AI,ROBOTS & SEX. Tags: , , , , , , | No Comments |

Facts about the female orgasm that’ll blow your… mind (25 Images)

The various things about female orgasms that you probably always wanted to know

Women don’t need to have their vagina stimulated in order to achieve an orgasm. This can be done through anal stimulation, kissing, fondling of other body parts, and even (for a small amount of women) just by mere thought.

Around 55% of American women have used a vibrator at some stage in their life.

It turns out that females can prematurely orgasm. This is great, other than the fact that afterwards, they can jump right back into it again. Whereas us guys need a little bit more time, so it’s still worse. A 2011 study showed that 40% of the women in the study experienced orgasms prior to the time that they wanted to during intercourse. However, this was only considered chronic in 3% of them

Orgasms can genuinely help with pain. Headache sufferers often find that orgasms help calm their headaches.

Contrary to popular belief, there is only one type of orgasm for women. There isn’t a clitoral orgasm and a vaginal orgasm, or even an anal orgasm. It’s all one & the same orgasm, but you can achieve it in a variety of ways

You can die from orgasms. Well… if there’s any one way to go, then that would be it I suppose. Don’t be concerned, this is incredibly uncommon.

A study in 2014 showed us that lesbians tend to experience orgasms more frequently than heterosexual females do during the sex act. According to the study, 61.6% of heterosexual females experience frequent orgasms during sex, while 74.7% of lesbians experience orgasms during sex. Hey, they have the advantage of knowing all the tricks maybe.

There are women who have reported having orgasms while getting tattooed.

Squirting is a very real thing. Not every woman can do it, but when they do, it’s quite intense for the female. Furthermore, it isn’t pee. A lot of people seem to think it’s pee. It’s not pee. It’s not jizz either, though. Some women’s urethral sponge is filled with a fluid that is similar to ejaculate fluid but contains no semen.

Vibrators were once used by doctors to treat hysteria. We’ve all heard about this, and that’s because it’s true! This is no joke. The first vibrators used for this, however, were steam powered, which is kind of interesting.

Women can experience orgasms during physical workouts. With the right muscles constantly engaged, and maybe the help of some particular sitting positions (and a nice seat?) you can experience an orgasm.

Women who ‘mix things up’ when in the bedroom are likelier to have frequent orgasms.

Around .5% of women have had an orgasm whilst giving birth.

There has been one documented case of a women experiencing an orgasm from brushing her teeth.

Some women have been known to faint when they orgasm. There have even been reports of heat failure via orgasm, but it is a very rare (and unfortunate) circumstance.

Gentlemen, if your girl is faking an orgasm, there are easy ways to tell. Look for her increased heart rate, rhythmic contractions in her lower abdomen, arched feet, pelvic thrusts and dilated pupils.

Kegel exercises (working out of the vagina) can help improve both the quantity of orgasms and the quality of orgasms a woman can experience. They aid in sexual arousal, lubrication, and orgasm achievability.

When women experience an orgasm, their bodies release oxytocin, which increases their feelings of affection & love. The strength of the female orgasm relies on how much oxytocin is in her system at the time of orgasm.


Multiples orgasms are very far from being just a myth. A study of 800 female college graduates found that approximately 43% reported having had multiple orgasms. So presicely what is a multiple orgasm?

According to Dr. Streicher. “Some women experience long, cascading orgasms, where you continue to have strong rhythmic pelvic contractions for some time. And then there are orgasms where you have that over-satisfied sensation which stops and then, with more stimulation, starts again.”

Findings have shown us that the moment that you achieve an orgasm literally makes you .to feel fearless and stronger than ever. Your self-reflection activity and fear dramatically decrease during orgasm. It’s too bad that they’re so damn just not long enough.

Does your female S/O hate anal play? Maybe suggest that nearly 95% of women can orgasm through anal sex.

The clitoris is made of the same material as the penis head and contains approx. 8,000 nerve endings.

Not every woman experiences the mind-blowing, bed-rocking, exorcism inducing orgasms that we visualise. In fact, some women don’t even know when they’ve orgasmed exactly. Rather, they feel a certain feeling of “completion and satisfaction.”

Studies are disclosing that older women are experiencing more orgasms than younger women are. A recent study showed us that 61% of females having sex between the ages of 18 and 24 experienced an orgasm the last time they got jiggy. For women ages 40+ that number shoots up to 70%. The Cougars rule?

A female orgasm can last anywhere from 15 seconds to 2 minutes. It’s different for each individual, but on average, the female orgasm usually lasts anywhere between 15 and 20 seconds.

Henry Sapiecha


Published by Henry, on June 11th, 2018 at 9:56 pm. Filled under: HOW TO & DIY,ORGASMS,WOMEN. Tags: , , , | No Comments |

Woman couldn’t orgasm for 10 years

A BURLESQUE dancer who couldn’t have an orgasm during sex for almost ten years was labelled “too difficult to please” by her lovers.

Amy Gledhill, from Leicester, has a rather rare condition called situational anorgasmia – meaning she can’t climax in certain circumstances, The Sun reports.

The 26-year-old construction worker, who also works as a burlesque dancer, was so ashamed of her condition that she would hide under the sheets during sex.

Now in a loving relationship, she still at times struggles to climax.

The 26-year-old used to be so ashamed of the condition that she would hide under the sheets during sex. Picture: Facebook

Ms Gledhill told the Mail Online she had underwent psychosensual treatment with relationships and sex mentor Colin Richards to help get to the root of her problem.

“Being so open about sex and relationships, people are often surprised that I have situational anorgasmia but I don’t think they put this and the burlesque together,” she said.

Amy first noticed something was wrong when she was 17 and says she was unable to climax with a partner either during sex or when masturbating in front of them.

She soon realised that she could only experience an orgasm when by herself.

“You read magazines and hear all the different ways to give and receive sexual pleasure, and see multiple orgasms in porn, and you just assume every woman is capable of such easy pleasure,” she said.

After some years of feeling something was wrong, Ms Gledhill became self-conscious and felt “under pressure to perform”.

“In the past, comments were made that I’m ‘difficult’ to please. That breaks down the bond you’d ideally like to have with a partner and makes it seem very one-sided,” she said.

“As relationships have gone on and I’ve become more comfortable with partners, I have been able to relax more and found a way of masturbating with them to achieve orgasm during a sexual encounter.

“I was still always aware that they felt somewhat disappointed that they had not been able to make me orgasm directly or through penetrative sex.”

She underwent psychosensual treatment with a relationships and sex mentor to help get to the root of her problem. Picture: Facebook

Ms Gledhill has now been in a relationship with Mike Rollason for over a year and says he is more supportive than past lovers, and prepared to spend more time “finding out what I like and what turns me on.”

“We communicate so much more and a genuine connection also helps as well as my own experience over time,” she said.

Earlier this year, Ms Gledhill sought the assistance of Colin Richards, founder of Intimacy Matters.

She partook in a workshop as a “volunteer massage receiver” to help her deal with her body confidence and shyness issues.

During a three hour psychosensual treatment, which combined counselling and intimate bodywork, they explored her childhood, teen years and relationships.

“We discussed a few different things that may have affected me.”

They concluded that her shyness meant she struggled to make her voice heard, fearing what she had to say was not “worth people’s time.”

“My sexual openness and personal guidance from Colin has helped me achieve a better personal sexual understanding,” Ms Gledhill said.

She said she now has better sexual understanding which has helped her sex life. Picture: Facebook

She added that she now has “orgasms during sex with my partner that I never thought I would ever experience.”

She has now set up her own business, Sensual Touch Massage, to help other women with issues.

“I now don’t feel like I’m disappointing my partner or myself even when I don’t orgasm, we both just enjoy the sex and don’t fixate on the ‘orgasm goal’, this is when it most often actually does happen.”

This article originally appeared in The Sun and was republished with permission.

Henry Sapiecha

Published by Henry, on June 10th, 2018 at 10:49 am. Filled under: ORGASMS,SEX LESSONS,SEX PROBLEMS,SEX SERVICES,SEX THERAPISTS. Tags: , , , , | No Comments |

Male Porn-star reveals the best sex secrets we’ve all been just dying to find out [12 Pics]


Chances are you’ may recognize legendary adult entertainer Johnny Sins. He’s the guy who has performed with some of the hottest porn stars in the business, with his Greek god-like physique and bald head surging away as one of the top actors in the industry. We recently hit him up for an interview and we’re thrilled when he agreed to hand out the goodies. This man is on his way to the hall-of-fame.

Just a heads up, we get extremely detailed with his secrets so you may want to put the kids to bed before you read this. So take notes, your significant other half may appreciate it.

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1…Absolutely! I use a combo of mental and physical attributes to prolong sex. If I feel like I am going to climax too early I’ll start with mentally getting my mind off of how good it feels. Basically distract yourself with math, baseball, anything that gets your mind off it for that time. That might not be the most fun method though since you really should be enjoying the sex. I really only do this on set. Physically, my go-to moves are to thrust deep and hold it for a few seconds, or as long as you need until that climax feeling goes away. Another method I use is to just pull out and go down and eat the girl out, she’ll love it and think you just love her pussy that much that you had to taste her. Once the “oh shit I’m going to cum too soon” feeling goes away, go back at it and repeat!

2…I think it’s extremely important. I manscape about once a week but if I’m doing a scene I shave everything clean in the morning. I don’t like the bald look so I leave the top pubes and shave my balls, shaft, anywhere with hair. It’s just very visually pleasing on camera plus I want my partner to be able to lick, suck, and fuck any part of me without any drama.

3…This completely depends on the person you are asking! If it’s with your partner don’t make it about a specific person, make it about the experience you can share together. Your partner will not want to have a threesome with someone they think you have a crush on so try to choose someone neutral or even someone you don’t even know. Always pay attention to both people in the threesome equally, maybe just a little more to your partner. Make them feel special by making eye contact with them even though you might be fucking someone else. Make them feel as comfortable as possible and you could find yourself having a lot more fun threesomes!

Most plus size women I come across are very so horny and ready to please!

Foreplay is awesome and I don’t know why any guy wouldn’t want to do it. When you find the right spots you can make your partner cum at will! Find the gspot, suck on her clit, eat her arse in just the right way and she’ll be cumming before you even think about penetrating her. A lot of guys get nervous they aren’t going to be able to make the girl orgasm, but if she cums before you even penetrate you can wind back and enjoy the ride. Go slow at first every girl has different eroginous spots but once you find them she is putty in your hands or fingers or tongue!

I’m not a very vocal guy in the cot but if the girl likes dirty talk it’s not hard to come up with a few interesting things to say. For basic dirty talk you can just describe what’s going on, such as “my cock is so hard for you, I’m going to slide it in your tight little pussy cunt nice and slow, inch by inch until I’m deep inside you and make you cum all over my dick, cum all over it, I want to feel your cum gushing all around that cock” or something like that! It’s also hot when you whisper in her ear as you are fucking, things like, “your pussy feels so good, my dick is throbbing for you”, or “I’m going to fuck you until you cum everywhere and can’t walk straight & knees are trembling”. Don’t talk too much though or you might be annoying and ruin the vibe!

Yes absolutely get out of the bedroom! Change it up, make things more interesting and more exciting! Sex in the same place can become mundane, don’t get stuck in the rut of only fucking in the bedroom. Some of my favorite places for sex outside the bedroom are the shower, you are already naked, and wet, bend her over and fuck her doggystyle as the hot water runs over your bodies. Outdoors or in semi-public places like dressing rooms or bathrooms are also another favorite spot. Nothing is hotter than being out and so horny you have to fuck right there in the public bathroom. My girl, Kissa and I once got kicked out of the Cosmopolitan Hotel in Vegas for fucking in the men’s room of the casino! A janitor cleaned the stall beside us and must have reported us because security was waiting for us as we left! Another favourite place of ours in the car. We go on dates and she gives me road head on the way to dinner or wherever and we usually end up fucking in the back seat before the date even starts!

Both are equally important but I think chemistry is very important. Even the most beautiful girls can come across ugly and unattractive if they have a bad personality or attitude. You still have to be attracted to the other person but a great personality trumps beautiful looks any day! Find a partner with both and you have struck the jackpot.

In my experience, most girls love to have their arse licked and played with while getting fucked. Start slow and get her comfortable. Always lick her ass when your performing oral, go back and forth, lick her ass and rub her clit at the same time. Touch around her asshole when you’re in doggy or cowgirl and when she’s comfortable with it slide the tip of your finger in. Girls cum a lot with the extra stimulation of a finger in the booty! Once they realize how good it feels they will want to feel what it’s like to get fucked in the ass. Most girls absolutely love it but there will be some that consider that exit only!

Start slow, get the pussy nice and wet with your spit. Gently lick her clit with your tongue, work it up, don’t go to hard at first. Lick all the way from her clit to her ass and back and forth. Gently nibble on her clit, test it out and nibble a little harder finding just the right amount of pressure, suck her clit, open her pussy and bury your tongue deep inside, suck on her pussy, work every area focusing on her clit. When she’s close to orgasm, if you’re doing it right, she will be, don’t change, do exactly what you’re doing until she cums in your mouth. Suck her pussy, suck all the cum out and feel what it’s like to have your head in a vice, her legs are so tight around it. Then passionately make out with her with her juices all over your mouth, letting her know how good she tastes.

It’s hard to explain but girls that just have a little extra something, their vibe is chill but they are also confident in their own skin. I think that’s sexy. I also love girls that take care of themselves, like working out and eating healthy but also don’t need to put a full face of makeup on every day to feel sexy. Casually hot, I like to call it.

Henry Sapiecha


Published by Henry, on May 20th, 2018 at 6:44 pm. Filled under: MEN,PORN STARS. Tags: , , | No Comments |

What actually happens to your body when you stop having sex

Intimacy and physical contact are things humans need to survive, and yes that involves a little action between the sheets. Maybe it has been a little while since you’ve done the deed? Perhaps you and your partner have lost a bit of the sparkle from your love life. Or maybe you’re newly single or simply don’t have the time to date. It’s also possible you’re just focused on other things in your life and don’t feel like you’re missing out by not having sex.

Irrestective of the reason behind the lack of lovemaking in your life, if you’ve noticed any sudden changes in your mood or your body, it might be wise to get back in the game. It turns out not having sex can actually cause some changes in your body and, sure, some of the changes you experience might be pretty pleasant, but we can tell you for certain that the vast majority of them are not. Here’s what you can probably expect to happen if making love has taken a backseat in your life.

You might have a wet dream or two

Like an over-hormonal teenage boy, women who aren’t having sex regularly may find that their body will remind them what they’re missing iwhile they sleep. That’s right, we’re talking about what teenage boys might call having a wet dream. This is especially likely to happen if your sex life is not only at a standstill, but you’ve also given up on self masturbating.

Researchers had it easy when they were studying nocturnal emissions in men, the most obvious reason being because men have erections that are visible and ejaculate as proof that they’ve climaxed. With women, studying these night time bouts of arousal was far more complex.

Studies done to collect data on female arousal during their sleep, they had to measure heart rate, do brain scans, and watch for temperature jumps near the clitoris. While it wasn’t easy, they managed to get it done and later revealed in a study reported by Broadly that 37 percent of women will have a wet dream before the age of 45 and that they’re most common in women between the ages of 40 and 50. So, if it’s been a while since you’ve gotten lucky, you can expect these little goodies to find their way into your subconscious.

Your stress levels go through the roof

According to Psychology Today, the endorphins released during sex are ideal for leaving your worries behind and putting an instant smile on your face. So when you’ve gone a while without any nookie, you might notice that your stress levels start to build up.

If you’re not one to get off as often as you’d like, have no fear! It’s not only those endorphins that help reduce stress levels, it’s those acrobatic moves we attempt in the bedroom also. Sex can be a form of exercise, which we all know fights off stress and anxiety, so if you aren’t getting any these days, try not to skip your cardio workouts.

If it wasn’t bad enough that without sex you’re feeling overstressed, you might also have high blood pressure. One study determined that those who had sex over a two week period had significantly lower blood pressure levels than those who were without sex or even compared those who masturbated or participated in sexual activities that excluded intercourse. So even taking care of things yourself or making out a bit won’t help your stress levels very much. In this case, women actually do require a partner.

Your immune system suffers

Seems like having sex provides some key benefits to our health, but when we’re not romping around in the sheets with our partner, we actually more susceptible to getting sick too. According to the Mayo Clinic, the DHEA, or Dehydroepiandrosterone, hormone is released during arousal, with even more released when you orgasm. This hormone gives your immune system a bit of a boost, helping your body to fight against bacteria, viruses, and other pretty nasty germs.

While not having sex certainly doesn’t mean you’re going to come down with some major illness, you’ll be missing out on some of these other great benefits as well. The DHEA hormone is also found to act as an antidepressant, make your skin look great, help repair any damaged skin tissue faster, and even increase apprehension and learning abilities.

A study of college students also stated that higher levels of immunoglobulin A, an antibody that is important for immune function, in those who had sex at least once or twice a week when compared to those who didn’t. So, no sex means no antibody to fight off that flu bug you have contracted!

You feel miserable & depressed

Apparently Semen is the new antidepressant. That sounds like something a guy would say to get a girl into bed, but it’s true! Psychology Today reported on a study in which 293 SUNY Albany female students were surveyed on their sex habits, such as frequency and whether or not they used a condom. They then gave the same women the Beck Depression Inventory to evaluate their moods and levels of depression.

It turns out that those who were having sex without a condom were significantly less depressed than those who were using condoms or not having sex at all. When the mood elevating compounds found in semen are absorbed by the vaginal walls, they can literally cheer a woman up. Who knows?! Great Theory..

Ceasing sexual intercourse is also often due to a breakup, which can cause depression on its own. Dr. Lauren Streicher, author of Sex Rx: Hormones, Health, and Your Best Sex Ever explains, “You might be depressed because your boyfriend cheated on you and your life is in the toilet, but the specific lack of sexual activity is in no way going to cause [clinical] depression, even though there’s a substantial correlation.”

You lose your libido & sex drive

While “use it or lose it” may be true here, women don’t actually lose anything they can’t get back, at least while we’re still in our baby-making years. According to an article in Prevention, when your body stops having the feelings associated with orgasms, it simply just makes adjustments to not being given those feelings and stops seeking them out.

If you aren’t too keen on losing your sex drive for even a short while, self masturbation should do the trick. Sex therapist Holly Richmond, who has a PhD in Somatic Psychology even said, “People who are comfortable masturbating tend to be more thoughtful and giving lovers,” so don’t be shy!

Feel grateful you’re a woman in this regard, as men actually can lose it if they don’t use it. Like any other muscle in the body, studies have shown that when a man doesn’t exercise his “Johnson” for an extended period of time, he’s more likely to develop erectile dysfunction because sex helps to strengthen blood vessels and nerve fibers that are necessary for men to have an erection.

Your vaginal walls get weaker

It appears that women over the age of 50 or so, risk not feeling any pleasure during sex if they don’t have intercourse regularly. Typically, the vaginal walls will get thin and weaken to the point of tearing while entering menopause, making sex extremely painful. The best way to prevent this from happening is to keep doing the deed well into retirement. Dr. Streicher told Reader’s Digest that thinning of the vaginal walls is due to lack of blood flow, which can be increased by sexual arousal and penetration.

“Older women who are not having intercourse are more likely to have thinning and drying of the tissues,” she said. “A big part of this is blood flow, and we know increased activity increases blood flow.”

If painful sex isn’t bad enough, a side effect of the weakening of a woman’s vaginal walls is difficulty creating natural lubricant, making sex after a long dry spell not only painful but frustratingly dry. In this case, doctors have said if you don’t use it then you will lose it, so end your dry spell and hop in bed with your partner ASAP! You’re never too old to get your sex jollies.

Your risk of getting a UTI decreases

Urinary tract infections are no laughing matter. They’re painful, frustrating, and seemingly never-ending. Have you ever noticed that nearly every time you’ve gotten an infection it was right after having sex? That’s because research has shown that 80 percent of UTIs form within 24 hours of sexual intercourse, according to The New York Times. Most commonly, women will get an infection when having sex for the first time after a long period of time without getting it on. Even two or three weeks can be considered a long time, so even being away from a partner for a short while can leave women at risk for a UTI.

Likely the only positive thing that comes out of a long dry spell is the fact that you’re pretty much in the clear when it comes to getting this nasty infection, but once you start being active in the bedroom again, you’re almost guaranteed to get one. Seems like you may be dealing with a double edged sword.

You put on weight

You might not know just how many calories you’re burning in between the sheets, but you might notice it after the sex has stopped. According to Woman’s Day, light kissing only burns about 68 calories per hour, but you can burn around 476 calories making out in the same amount of time. Apparently the anticipation of these kisses leading to more than just heavy petting causes us to breathe heavier, resulting in more calories burned!

Giving your partner a sensual massage is not only great for setting the mood, but will help you burn 80 calories in just an hour. When foreplay starts to get frisky, hand stuff will burn about 100 calories in an hour, but giving oral will burn twice as much at about 200 calories. Sex itself will burn at least 144 calories in a half hour, but that’s if you’re rather  lazy and letting your guy or gal do all the work. Changing positions, taking control on top, and even moaning every so often will burn significantly more.

That’s about 1,200 calories a week you could be burning if you had sex three or four times, which is lot of extra calories you’re no longer burning if you give up doing the deed! So if you go from having regular sex to none, then you may notice that you’ve gained a few extra pounds.

Your brain turns mushy

Memory loss and absent mindedness are huge side effects of going without sex. Sex strengthens & boosts the functionality of the hippocampus, which is a small part of the brain that assists with your long-term memory. During sex, new neurons are produced by this section of the brain, which significantly help you with your memory issues, according to at least one report. When the sex stops for an extended period of time, this boost in your memory and cognitive functions disappear.

Before you start thinking that having daily sex will give you a photographic memory, understand that the hippocampus isn’t responsible for your complete memory bank. An article published in Broadly reported on a study in which 78 women were asked to analyze abstract words as well as neutral faces.

The study found that women who had regular sex were able to remember the words better than those who weren’t having sex, but neither group was able to remember the faces well because memory of images rely on a different area of the brain. This was only found to occur in women, not men, and can explain why women who just get out of a relationship and aren’t having sex can seem to be a little absent-minded.

You won’t contract an STI…most likely

We’ve all had our scares and found ourselves visiting a health clinic, admitting to a stranger in a lab coat how many partners we’ve had over the years and listing all the symptoms we’re experiencing that have convinced us we have an infection. Usually it’s just a yeast infection or the result of some seriously tight jeans, but not having sex means you no longer have to worry — about most STIs at least.

While going without sex is the only way to be sure you won’t get HIV, many people don’t know that you can contract by some infections through practically any form of sexual contact. That’s right, you can get herpes from simply making out with someone.

The Huffington Post makes a hilarious, but true, statement about getting a sexually transmitted infection without having sex saying, “Even grandmother kissing you at Christmas might pass on cold sores (a herpes virus).” So, while you can certainly worry less about STIs when you’re not having sex, that doesn’t necessarily mean you don’t have to worry about them completely.

You may doubt your relationship

When you are in a relationship and the sex starts to wane somewhat, you may be left feeling insecure and distant. Studies have shown that married couples who do not have regular sex have greater divorce rates. A study in the Journal of Marriage and Family found that even unmarried couples are at risk. Couples who live together who stop having sex are also more at risk for breaking up. While it’s difficult to state whether relationship problems cause a decrease in sexual activity or if less action in the bedroom leads to relationship problems, they’re certainly related.

“Going without sex in a marriage can deliver a hit to your self-esteem, engender guilt, and decrease levels of oxytocin and other bonding hormones,” Psychologist Les Parrott told Prevention. “It can also increase fears that one of you will look to others for your sexual needs, which can breed a little paranoia.” If the sex activity has been lacking in your relationship, talk to your partner before it takes on a life of its own.

Your workouts won’t be as effective

It turns out that a great night of libido exchange with your partner could also lead to a great workout the next morning. This is because the hormones released during sex help with pain tolerance, motivation, and better sleep. During an orgasm, the hormone dopamine is released, and this little friend makes you feel good and helps get you up and moving. That means you’ll be more likely to get up and get to your workout and you might even be able to push through a bit more discomfort on the treadmill than normal. If you suddenly lose that happy source of dopamine in the bedroom, your workout motivation may go down the charts.

Supermodel Miranda Kerr once confessed that she wasn’t as toned after going through her divorce, because she was no longer having sex. “One thing I’ve noticed is now that I’m having less sex my body isn’t as toned,” she told Women’s Health. “The more sex I have, the more defined my arms and stomach get.” Hey, if it can happen to a Victoria’s Secret model, it can happen to anyone!

You’ll tap into your partner’s feelings

One of the things that physical intimacy does for us is open us up to other types as intimacy as well. That’s one of the reasons why when we think of a relationship without sex, we can’t help but believe those two individuals must be distant in other ways as well. Not having sex is a symptom of a serious relationship problem, right? While a lack of intimacy might indicate an issue in some relationships, it’s sometimes par for the course after having a baby. What’s more, not having sex might even help new parents tap into their partner’s feelings a bit more in some cases.

A study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine found that postpartum women who had not resumed sex yet were actually more concerned with their partner’s needs and feelings about sex than their own. The new mothers reported focusing more on their partner’s desire and fatigue levels, and that was the biggest predictor of when they would feel ready to restart sexual activity.

You’ll learn new coping skills

There’s a silver lining to be found in most situations, and that would include what happens to you when you stop having sex for a while. We’ve noted how making love can keep our stress levels in check, so you’d think that not having that intimacy and stress-buster in your life would leave you completely at a loss. It appears, however, that if you aren’t having the sex that you desire, it forces you to cope with that stress and learn new ways to do so.

A study in the Journal of Marriage and Family found that when individuals who wanted sex found themselves in a celibate relationship, they learned new coping skills to keep themselves going. They also remained in hope that sex would return, keeping them feeling positive. So look on the bright side. At least you’re growing as an individual!

The study didn’t address people who are single and therefore not seeing any action, but like those in celibate relationships, let’s stay hopeful.

Henry Sapiecha





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As you may have imagined, I kinda like it all when it comes to sex, but everything is very situational. There are times when the foreplay can be almost as good as the sex, as foreplay relies on more chemistry than just sex. So I find the more into someone I am, the more foreplay I want. When I mention situational… let me give you an example: if you are having sex in, let’s say a taxi, then there may not be as much time for foreplay. You could also use the taxi cab for foreplay only. I just have a thing with sex in taxi cabs.

Mistakes during sex…. Wow.., I personally have seen many of them. I may have to start a blog to actually list them, but the ones that I think can be fixed I will discuss. Don’t be too quiet, but be careful before you are too vocal. Get to know what things are within the comfort level of what you have together. If you are gonna pull hair (something most of us love) Grab the hair at the nape of the neck, weave your fingers in the hair at the scalp, grab and pull. Don’t grab hair and yank it, that hurts, and not in a good way. Slow down, just slow down, enjoy the moment, find the groove, lots of touching, kissing, grabbing. There is no reason to NOT ask questions the first couple of times with a new partner. Don’t go through a routine. The same things you have done in the past may not be working, since clearly you are with someone new. We all want to pleasure each other, and we also want to be pleased. I find it easy looking up from between my partners legs and saying “Tell me what you like.” It works, trust me.

The best sex I have ever had is with the man I am the most connected with. He and I have a passion that is so intense I sometimes can’t breathe. It has been like that since our first time and 2 years later, it is even more intense. I realize now it is, for me, about a connection on many levels, to have that dripping wet I can’t wait another second for you feeling. I have and still have a lot of GREAT sex, HOT sex, on and offset with men and women. I love the variety in my sexual life, but I now know that a different sexual level is out there.

Girls are into a lot kinkier things than you would think. We love toys and love a guy that will play with toys and us. Many women have told me they have fantasies they would be afraid to try to act out, I get to do it on set, in a safe place, so they live through me. Girls think more like guys than you think. We just hide it more.

Men and women both make mistakes during foreplay. Listen up everyone, this is a key piece of information for you: foreplay is the time when you can close out the world and start to listen. Listen to breathing, sounds and study. Study your partner that you so badly want to please. It is the time where you can map out all of the favorite spots your partner desires and needs to be touched. It is the perfect time to fall into each other and focus on the only one goal that matters, orgasms, for both and as many times as possible.

Communication. Communication and patience is everything when you are trying to explore someone’s sexual limitations. There are a lot of online work shops and trade shows now where a couple can go and start the dialogue about different fetishes and sexual cultures. I say take some adventures, make some conversations and when it is time to take a chance with something, a shot of good liquor never hurt!

I know we all have heard this before, and you will shake your head and say I am full of it, but personality. Personality is what starts it for me. You can be a totally random guy, I have no stats for what I am looking for, no requirements, just be cool and I might be inviting you into a cab. One more thing…this one is a real panty dropper for me…good word skills – a wordsmith, as I like to say – I don’t know why but a good vocabulary with the proper use of words just melts me…everywhere.

This is a thing that I feel is as important as other aspects of life. Discuss this in the dating phase. It is an issue that can leave someone feeling like they are not enough for their partner, and that it’s not good nor will it bring more sex into the relationship. I say put it out there, in the dating phase, and if it is addressed properly it will be ok. If porn is important to you, let it be known, and if your partner is willing to be eased into it, get online and start looking together. Start slowly and gradually build into different types of scenes. This may not be something you put on your profile, but it is a sexual part of you and all sexual needs are important. So be real with who you are and what you like when you are dating. If she can’t handle it, then she can’t handle you!

Bad attitude. Leave that for me, you get to have none. Anyone that knows me knows that I like to be nice to everyone, everywhere. So if I am on a date and my date is not nice, I politely say I am going to the bathroom and I catch a cab home. Sounds harsh, but why waste my time and be embarrassed. So be nice or our date could be at an end before you know it!

Henry Sapiecha

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AUSTRALIAN REPORT where Data reveals surprise suburbs & towns where people want sex the most

THESE are the top cities for sex around Australia— So says the paper trail

Read into it what you may..!!

Romantic fiction, according to new data released by book publisher Mills and Boon, is more desired in regional, working class towns and outer-city suburbs across Australia.

Behind garden fences, desired wild sex and heated romance are a hit in areas like NSW’s Penrith, where almost 11,000 Mills & Boon books were sold last year — the most in the country — and Toowoomba in Qld, a close second nationally with 10,457 sales. That’s around one for every 10 adults.

The Victorian town of Shepparton came out on top , while the riverside city of Launceston was the most popular location in Tasmania, and Bunbury, a port town, lead the charge for WA.

While on the surface it might seem like these areas may seriously steamy, romance experts said the findings would indicate a cnumber of points.

Sexologist Isiah McKimmie said busy women in outer city areas were often juggling work, children and household duties, and were likely turning to books in their minimal down time to “reignite passion” in their lives.

“With busy lives — and seemingly little romantic time with their partner — women could be turning to erotic novels to find sexual excitement and reignite lost passion,” Ms McKimmie said.

“In long-term relationships, especially where there are children involved, couples can become disconnected and often lose intimacy once enjoyed in the bedroom.

“As a couples therapist and sexologist, my biggest group of clients are couples who’ve been together for 10-15 years and have had children.”

“There is so much that we’re not taught about sex, what it can involve and how to really enjoy it, people are quite curious about this.

“Erotic novels can also be a great source of education and inspiration for what is possible in a sexual relationship.”

Sex coach Isiah McKimmie says research has shown women who read erotic novels have healthy sex lives.

The typical Australian romance reader was a married woman aged 40 with two teenage children, and more than 50 per cent of the 838 readers who were surveyed said they wanted more romance in their lives.

But things are not always straightforward when it comes to the bedroom, with Ms McKimmie saying she had also seen data that indicated people in quieter towns were actually having more sex than anyone else.

“Some research has shown that women who read romantic or erotic novels have more sex than those who don’t,” she said.

“Sexual desire becomes responsive when we’re in long-term relationships, which means we need to put a little effort into having it respond.

Dominic and Simone Britt live in Frankston, one of Victoria’s “romance” capitals. Picture: Nicki Connolly

“Erotic novels can help us do this and look forward to sex.”

Across the wide range of genres Mills and Books books cover, from “by request” to the intriguing “medical” category and “historical duo” topic, “sexy” was the common denominator in each state across the country.

Brownsville folk in Wollongong were most interested in the genre of “desire duo”, while those in Ararat, VIC, were all about the hot and heavy “romantic suspense” reads — and in Darwin the top topic is “forever romance”.

The research was released by the publisher, known internationally for their romantic fiction, to mark the release of their new DARE range of novels, a more explicit new genre.

Publishing executive Jo Grant said the notion of “escapism” for people stuck in routine made erotic novels a fantasy outlet, adding the “pursuit of love” was a drawcard.

“When speaking to our readers, the main reason given, again and again, across ages, cultural backgrounds, stages of life, is that romance offers escapism,” she said.

“Romance novels offer a safe space for women to escape into.

“This is because a true romance novel will always give you a happy ending, no matter how tumultuous the journey was to get there.

“There is something so very satisfying and reassuring about that happy ending.”

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Published by Henry, on February 18th, 2018 at 8:16 pm. Filled under: BOOKS,LIBIDO,LISTS,ROMANCE,SEX SELLS,SEXUAL DESIRE,STATS REPORTS PAPERS. Tags: , , , , , , , , | No Comments |

29-year-old virgin falls pregnant & has never had sex

Woman has baby without ever having sex

Lauren has only ever been kissed, and said it didn’t do much for her.

IF TEEN movies (or Steve Carell movies) have taught us anything about virginity, it’s that the label comes with a lot of baggage.

We expect virgins of a certain age to be wracked with shame and angst – they don’t want us to know their dark secret, and yet they also desperately want to end the drought.

As far as 29-year-old virgins go, Lauren seems at ease with the “virgin” label. She’s not exactly screaming it from the rooftops, but she’s not in any rush to get laid either. In fact, she’s pretty chill with the idea of living her entire life without having sex. Part of this comes from growing up with a gland disorder that affects her body’s hormone production, but there’s also an element of not caring one bit.

In a deeply religious Manitoban community, it’s this attitude that pushed Lauren to seek a sperm donor and eventually become a single mum – against the advice of doctors and friends. This has been Lauren’s hot ticket out of the dating market, where she says apps allow dudes to act like turds.

“People say horrible stuff,” she told VICE.

“I remember when I had an online dating profile the first comment I got was ‘Do you want to come sit on my face?’ For one, does that actually work on anyone? And two, no thank you. People like that turn me away.”

Journalist Sarah Berman from VICE caught up with Lauren to talk about thirsty DMs (direct messages), pregnancy hormones, and that very specific kind of FOMO that comes with swearing off sex for life. (For the record, her baby’s due in June, and she’s currently taking name inspiration from Game of Thrones.)

Can you remember feeling different from a young age?

I knew I was different from the beginning. I was born with hypopituitarism, which means my pituitary gland is not formed properly. It doesn’t send the right hormonal messages to the other glands in the body, like the adrenaline gland or the ovaries. Because of that, I have to take hormone replacements to even myself out. I’ve had it under control now for 29 years, so it’s not an issue now. But it was very obviously different because I was taking thyroid pills and taking a needle of growth hormones every day.

Because of my pituitary gland, I went through puberty super late. I wouldn’t have gone through it at all without higher oestrogen levels. I really only started that because I was getting made fun of for being really flat chested, whereas everybody else was getting their boobs and everything at that point. That really sucked because it forced me to do something I wasn’t necessarily ready for.

Was it hard not going through puberty like your friends? Were kids cruel about it?

Lauren is a virgin and got a sperm donor to get pregnant.

In junior high I feel like I was getting it the worst. I got teased for being flat chested or having buck teeth. Kids would latch on to anything that was different. A lot of that teasing has given me social anxiety to this day. My life started improving when I started looking like everyone else. I went from a junior high school with only 100 students to a high school of 1,500 with more than 500 in my graduating class. It was really easy to hide and blend in to a different group.

The hardest thing was probably getting pregnant. Initially my endocrinologist said it won’t happen, that I’ll need to get an egg donor and spend tens of thousands of dollars on IVF. I felt really shut down. But he referred me to a fertility clinic anyway. I spent an entire year on a waiting list thinking it was never going to happen and then after one five minute appointment with a fertility expert that all changed.

I’m quite amazed by your lack of FOMO when it comes to sex. Do you ever feel like you’re missing out on something?

Since I’ve been pregnant there have been a few times where I’ve felt like maybe it would be nice to have someone for that – to go out and have sex … Sometimes, out of curiosity, I think maybe I could try a random hook-up, but that feeling very quickly passes – I realise I’m not acting like myself.

You’ve said that dating feels pointless. Can you tell me more about that?

I don’t know. I’ve tried dating here and there. I had a boyfriend in Grade 10 and we would hold hands and stuff like that. We mutually agreed it wasn’t working out for us. We’re still friends and there’s never been anything negative between us.

I haven’t had negative thoughts about the people I’ve gone on dates with, it’s just not for me. I’ve tried going online to dating websites. It just doesn’t seem worth it to me at all. The most recent date I went on was around last Christmas. I remember a friend was trying to hook me up with her brother. Nowadays I just do what I want to by myself. Not having to worry about anyone else is easier.

Does kissing appeal to you at all?

I’ve been kissed, very awkwardly. It’s not something I want to relive.

What do your friends think? Do many people know?

With the group of friends I grew up with, it wasn’t a big deal, which was kinds nice, because it wasn’t like I felt pressure to do anything I didn’t want to do. These days I talk more about their sex lives than mine. It’s not that they’re not supportive, I just feel like if I don’t bring it up, they won’t push.

It’s hard to say who knows. I live in a fairly small religious community, it’s very Mennonite. It’s gotten a bit more progressive lately, but up until a few years ago it was a dry town. So it’s not something you’d openly talk about. People know I’m single and having a kid by myself. But they don’t necessarily know the virgin part of it.

Did you want to be a mum for religious reasons?

I make jokes about it but basically this is me giving a middle finger to the people who told me I couldn’t do it because I’m not married yet. It’s the opposite of a religious reason. If you’re telling me I can’t do this, I’m going to do it anyway.

Is there something you think non-virgins out there could learn from your situation?

I think it’s just about knowing yourself. The more you know yourself, the more you’re going to be comfortable with the choices you make. I know what I’m comfortable with, I know what I want. I think people always say to take time to love yourself. It sounds so friggin’ cliche, but that’s the best thing you can do. Once you know what you want, who the hell cares what others think?

Do you think you’ll ever change your mind? Maybe wake up at 35 and decide to just go for it?

I feel like that would be terrible. Even just thinking about being in my 30s and telling someone I’m a virgin at that age, it would be like that old Seinfeld episode. It’s too embarrassing. At a certain point, if I wanted to hook up I would just not mention the virgin part … Maybe I will have regrets in ten years. Who knows.

This article originally appeared on VICE CANADA and has been republished with permission.

Henry Sapiecha

Published by Henry, on February 12th, 2018 at 9:52 am. Filled under: BABIES PREGNANCY,CHILDREN,IVF,WOMEN. Tags: , , , | No Comments |

Aid workers had paid for sex orgies while on a mission in Haiti

London England: Oxfam, one of the largest charities in Britain, Australia and other parts of the planet, has condemned the actions of some former staff members after a news report stated aid workers had paid for sex orgies whilst on a mission in Haiti to help those people affected by the devastating 2010 earthquake.

“The behaviour of some members of Oxfam staff uncovered in Haiti in 2011 was totally innapropriate, against our values and the high standards we expect of our staff,” Oxfam said when asked to comment on a report in The Times of London that aid workers had paid prostitutes for sex.-*

“As soon as we became informed of the allegations we immediately started an internal investigation. Allegations that underage girls may possibly have been involved were not proven,” Oxfam said, adding that four members of staff were dismissed as a result of the investigation and three resigned before finalising the investigation.

The Times report said workers paid for “full-on Caligula orgies” with survivors of the devastating earthquake, including some who could have been underage.

One unidentified source was quoted as saying that Oxfam workers had invited groups of young prostitutes to their guesthouse in Delmas, near Port-au-Prince, for sex parties with some of the sex workers wearing Oxfam T-shirts.

The report accused Oxfam of covering up the scandal by allowing those involved to immediately resign or leave quietly after being sacked. It said one of the men who was allowed to resign was given a “phased and dignified exit” for fear of damaging the charity’s reputation.

The report stated that prostitution is illegal in Haiti but Oxfam didn’t report it to Haitian authorities because “it was extremely unlikely that any action would be taken.”

Oxfam neither confirmed nor denied the Times newspaper report but said its misconduct findings had “related to offences including bullying, harassment, intimidation and failure to protect staff as well as sexual misconduct”.

The 2010 earthquake in Haiti killed 220,000 people and left millions more homeless.

The UK Charity Commission said such allegations risked undermining public trust in charities.

“The public expects charities to be safe and trusted environments that safeguard those who come into contact with them,” a Charity Commission spokeswoman said. “Allegations such as those involving Oxfam staff risk diluting public trust.”

“One would expect the charity to provide us with assurance that it has learnt lessons from past inappropriate behaviour and is taking all necessary steps to safeguard all who come into contact with it.”

Reuters, Fairfax Media


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Published by Henry, on February 10th, 2018 at 7:58 pm. Filled under: ARTICLES STORIES PAPERS,GROUP SEX,HUMANITARIAN GROUPS,INDIGENOUS PEOPLES,ORGIES GROUPS. Tags: , , , , , , , , , , | No Comments |