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Dolphin rapes girl in this amazing video

Horny Dolphin rapes girl, or rather tries to rape her. The crazy dolphin jumps out of water and starts humping an unsuspecting girl. A funny video, the girl laugh the whole time. Watch at the end how the dolphin starts yelling as it appears to think it was funny too.

What are dolphins really thinking? It’s very surprising how smart they really are and how they can get away with just about anything. If a man tried to do that, he’d go to jail for rape.

Dolphins raping humans: myth ?

(….) Despite the media frenzy around the idea of dolphin rape, it’s primates, birds and insects that are the forced copulation aficionados, not dolphins. What follows is a brief rundown of all of the aggressive sexual behaviors that scientists have observed in dolphins that often find their way into popular reports discussing dolphin rape:

Sexual Coercion: Sexual Coercion is a term describing a suite of behaviors observed most frequently in the bottlenose dolphins of Shark Bay Australia and Sarasota Bay Florida. Individuals or groups of males use a variety of coercive tactics to increase their chances of mating with females. In Shark Bay, groups of male dolphins are often seen in the company of an individual female for extended periods of time (referred to as a consortship). Sometimes these males begin the consortship by herding (i.e., chasing and corralling) the female, although other times the female appears to enter the consortship willingly. These males sometimes use aggressive behavior to keep the female close to them and to fend off rival males, and it’s during these consortships that mating takes place.

In Sarasota, males also follow females around when it’s time to mate (a form of mate guarding), but rarely engage in aggressive behavior directed at the female like in Shark Bay. Dolphins might use other tactics to persuade a female to mate with them, including committing infanticide (i.e., killing calves) so that the females will come into estrus and be more receptive.

But here’s the thing: even in the clearly aggressive coercion scenarios witnessed in Shark Bay, researchers have never witnessed forced copulation. The kind of coercion being described here isindirect in that these tactics ultimately result in males persuading females to mate with them, but not directly forcing themselves on the females. The scientific experts studying the Shark Bay dolphins had this to say about forced copulation in a recent book :
“We have no evidence of direct sexual coercion in dolphins, including forced copulation or other behaviors directly associated with male attempts to mate.”(….) read more about this subject

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Published by Henry, on September 3rd, 2016 at 8:48 pm. Filled under: ANIMALS,RAPE SEXUAL ABUSE,VIDEOS. Tags: , , , , , , , , | No Comments |

The man hired to have sex with children

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In some remote southern regions of Malawi, it’s traditional for girls to be made to have sex with a paid sex worker known as a “hyena” once they reach puberty. The act is not seen by village elders as rape, but as a form of ritual “cleansing”. However, as Ed Butler reports, it has the potential to be the opposite of cleansing – a way of spreading disease.

I meet Eric Aniva in the dusty yard of his three-room shack in Nsanje district in southern Malawi. Goats and chickens graze in the dirt outside. Wearing a grimy green shirt, and walking with a pronounced limp (he’s been lame in one leg since birth, he says), he greets me enthusiastically. He seems to like the idea of media attention.

Aniva is by all accounts the pre-eminent “hyena” in this village. It’s a traditional title given to a man hired by communities in several remote parts of southern Malawi to provide what’s called sexual “cleansing”. If a man dies, for example, his wife is required by tradition to sleep with Aniva before she can bury him. If a woman has an abortion, again sexual cleansing is required.

And most shockingly, here in Nsanje, teenage girls, after their first menstruation, are made to have sex over a three-day period, to mark their passage from childhood to womanhood. If the girls refuse, it’s believed, disease or some fatal misfortune could befall their families or the village as a whole.

“Most of those I have slept with are girls, school-going girls,” Aniva tells me.

“Some girls are just 12 or 13 years old, but I prefer them older. All these girls find pleasure in having me as their hyena. They actually are proud and tell other people that this man is a real man, he knows how to please a woman.”

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Despite his boasts, several girls I meet in a nearby village express aversion to the ordeal they’ve had to go through.

“There was nothing else I could have done. I had to do it for the sake of my parents,” one girl, Maria, tells me. “If I’d refused, my family members could be attacked with diseases – even death – so I was scared.”

They tell me that all their female friends were made to have sex with a hyena.


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Aniva appears to be in his 40s (he’s vague about his precise age) and currently has two wives who are well aware of his work. He claims to have slept with 104 women and girls – although as he said the same to a local newspaper in 2012, I sense that he long ago lost count. Aniva has five children that he knows about – he’s not sure how many of the women and girls he’s made pregnant.

He tells me he’s one of 10 hyenas in this community, and that every village in Nsanje district has them. They are paid from $4 to $7 (£3 to £5) each time.

An hour’s drive down the road, I’m introduced to Fagisi, Chrissie and Phelia, women in their 50s and custodians of the initiation traditions in their village. It’s their job to organise the adolescent girls into camps each year, teaching them about their duties as wives and how to please a man sexually. The “sexual cleansing” with the hyena is the final stage of this process, arranged voluntarily by the girl’s parents. It’s necessary, Fagisi, Chrissie and Phelia explain, “to avoid infection with their parents or the rest of the community”.

I put it to them that there’s a much greater risk that these “cleansings” will themselves spread disease. According to custom, sex with the hyena must never be protected with the use of condoms. But they say a hyena is hand-picked for his good morals, and therefore cannot be infected with HIV/Aids.

It’s clear, given the hyena’s duties, that HIV is a huge risk to the community. The UN estimates that one in 10 of all Malawians carry the virus, so I ask Aniva if he is HIV-positive. He astounds me by saying that he is – and that he doesn’t mention this to a girl’s parents when they hire him.

As our conversation continues, Aniva senses that I am not impressed. He stops boasting and tells me that he does fewer cleansings than before. “I still do the rituals here and there,” he confides. Then he tells me: “I am stopping.”

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All of those involved in these rituals are aware that these customs are condemned by outsiders – not just by the church, but by NGOs and the government as well, which has launched a campaign against so-called “harmful cultural practices”.

“We are not going to condemn these people,” says Dr May Shaba, permanent secretary of the Ministry of Gender and Welfare. “But we are going to give them information that they need to change their rituals.”

Parents who have had more education than others may already choose not to hire a hyena, I am told. But the female elders I spoke to remain defiant.

“There’s nothing wrong with our culture,” Chrissie tells me. “If you look at today’s society, you can see that girls are not responsible, so we have to train our girls in a good manner in the village, so that they don’t go astray, are good wives so that the husband is satisfied, and so that nothing bad happens to their families.”

According to Father Clause Boucher, a French-born Catholic priest who’s lived in Malawi for 50 years and is now its pre-eminent anthropologist, the rituals date back centuries. They stem from age-old beliefs about the need for children to be passed into the “heat” of adulthood by a sexual act, he says. In the past, when girls tended not to reach puberty until they were 15 or 16, this would often have been carried out by a selected future husband. Today it’s more likely to done by a paid sex worker, a hyena, and there’s no shame attached to that.

Father Boucher points out that the efforts to change this sexualisation of children have been stubbornly resisted in remote southern areas, despite more than a century of Christianity and 30 years of the Aids epidemic. In most of the country – and particularly in areas close to the cities of Blantyre and Lilongwe – “sexual cleansing” is rarely if ever practised.

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In Malawi’s central Dedza district, hyenas are only ever used to initiate widows or infertile women, but the Paramount Chief Theresa Kachindamoto – a rare female figurehead in Malawi – has made the fight against the tradition a personal priority.

She is trying to galvanise other regional chiefs to make similar efforts. In some other districts, like Mangochi in the east of the country, ceremonies are being adapted to replace sex with a more benign anointing of the girl.

In Nsanje, though, there is little effort to bring about change. With Malawi one of the poorest countries in the world, and suffering from growing reports of rural hunger, it’s not a policy priority.

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From left to right: Aniva, Fanny with their youngest child, Fanny’s sister and a former client

In a remote village, I meet one of Aniva’s two wives, Fanny, along with his youngest baby daughter. Fanny was herself widowed before being “cleansed” by Aniva with sex. They married soon after.

Their relationship looks strained. Sitting next to him, she admits shyly that she hates what he does, but that it brings necessary income. I ask her if she expects her two-year-old to be undergoing initiation too in perhaps 10 years from now.

“I don’t want that to happen,” she says. “I want this tradition to end. We are forced to sleep with the hyenas. It’s not out of our choice and that I think is so sad for us as women.”

“You hated it when it happened to you?” I ask.

“I still hate it right up until now.”

When I ask Aniva too whether he wants his daughter to undergo sexual cleansing, he surprises me again.

“Not my daughter. I cannot allow this. Now I am fighting for the end of this malpractice.”

“So, you’re fighting against it, but you are still doing it yourself?” I ask.

“No, as I said, I’m stopping now.”

“Really?”

“For sure. For real, I’m stopping.”

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Published by Henry, on July 26th, 2016 at 8:49 am. Filled under: ARRANGEMENTS,ARTICLES STORIES PAPERS,CHILDREN,MALES,SCHOOLS STUDENTS,SERVICES,SEX EDUCATION,SEX SERVICES,SEX STORIES,SEX SURROGATES,SEX WORKERS,TRADITION,UNDER-AGE SEX,VIDEOS,VIRGINS,YOUNG SEX. Tags: , , , , , | No Comments |

What internet pornography did to one teenager’s life

Young Andrew was only eight years old when he first viewed online pornography, but even then he knew there was no going back.

“I was sort of shocked – but I was fascinated by it as well,” the 23-year-old (who did not want his surname published) recalls of the hardcore film he watched on a computer at a friend’s house.

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Always on: Therapist Hugh Martin believes the internet has made pornography much more problematic than it was in the past. Photo: SMH

“It just seemed so real. I’d never really seen people naked before and here they were naked and doing things to each other … I knew I could never tell my parents, but once I first saw it I knew there was no going back.”

By the time Andrew was 14 watching porn had become his favourite past-time, constantly searching for something new on the internet which would give him a bigger high.

He gave up playing footy and stopped seeing his mates, preferring to stay up all night watching pornography instead. To make the porn feel more real he would seek out women on chat sites to act out scenarios with him.

“I couldn’t get up in the morning, and couldn’t concentrate in school,” Andrew explains. “All I was thinking about was getting back into a chat room or something like that.”

Andrew’s parents grew so worried about their lethargic son that they took him to the doctor for blood tests, convinced he had glandular fever. They still have no idea what was really affecting him.

Andrew’s pornography habit became so bad in his late teens that it started to damage his ability to have relationships with girls in real life. “I used to ask girls to do things and get off on that, rather than enjoying the pleasure of sex.” Eventually he couldn’t get aroused by girls anymore.

Therapist Hugh Martin, who specialises in helping men break their pornography habit, said Andrew’s story was typical of many of his clients. A recovering pornography addict himself, Mr Martin said most users had low self-esteem, were highly critical of themselves and lacked an emotional connection to their parents.

He believes the internet has made pornography much more problematic than it was in the past, and far more addictive than drugs or alcohol. “It makes it very real, very available, and very affordable. You get very physically and mentally engaged with the content.” He said extreme practices like bestiality and gang rape had become mainstream thanks to the internet.

Experts are growing increasingly concerned that the widespread use of online pornography among adolescents is skewing expectations about sex and relationships, especially as it does not depict any concept of consent. They say users find it hard to distinguish between what they see in pornography and what happens in real life.

“When you’re dealing with children looking at it, highly vulnerable people without any understanding or guidance, it becomes very dangerous,” Mr Martin said. Boys aged 14-17 are the most frequent underage consumers of pornographic material.

In therapy sessions Mr Martin helps clients understand their pornography use is a symptom of a deeper problem. They then work to resolve the “real” problem in their lives, and identify what they seek from porn such as stress relief, a self-esteem boost or reducing their anxiety. Mr Martin helps his clients understand their porn triggers, and find healthy alternatives that give them better highs, like playing sport.

Andrew says he suffers from low self-esteem, depression and anxiety, and that watching porn gave him a sense of power. “I’ve always felt pretty powerless because of being bullied pretty badly.” Yet the guilt and shame he felt about his porn use ultimately made him feel even worse.

“In the moment I did feel nice but it was afterwards that I felt bad about myself. The feeling of feeling bad only seemed to get worse which is one of the reasons I wanted help.”

It is only through therapy that Andrew has been able to break his addiction in the last year, and focus instead on his relationship with his girlfriend. He is now studying to be a youth worker.

“Once I started to deal with things like my low self-esteem, anxiety and self-loathing I could start to work towards what I really wanted for myself,” he says. “I had nothing to lose and I feel like I gained my self back.”

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Published by Henry, on July 17th, 2016 at 5:44 pm. Filled under: CHILDREN,INTERNET SEX,PEOPLE,PORN SEX,TEENAGERS. Tags: , , , | No Comments |

These 12 Thing Will Happen When You Make Love To Your Partner Daily

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Are you stressed? Struggling to sleep? Turns out there are a number of ailments that can be cured simply by having sex regularly. Here are twelve reasons why you and your partner should be having sex daily!

1. Sex Reduces Stress.

If youve had a long day at work or youre simply feeling a little overwhelmed, then sex will help you relax and reduce your stress levels! During sex our bodies produce dopamine, endorphins and oxytocin which together help us to de-stress, increases our natural happiness levels and enhances desire.

2. Sex Is An Enjoyable Exercise.

When faced with the word workout many of us will recoil in horror, unless of course that workout involves sex. Throughout sex our bodies are continually experiencing physiological changes that are consistent with an exercise routine. Our breathing rates rise which in turn burns calories, whichmeans that if you have sex just three times a week you can burn around 7,500 calories a year. Thats the same as running 75 miles!

3. Sex Helps YourImmune System.

Researchers at Wilkes University in Pennsylvania found that their students who stated they had sex at least twice a week had higher levels of particular antibodies than those who had no sex at all.During sex, antigens like immunoglobulin A are released which are proven to fight the common cold and even flu! Even more good news: the more frequently you engage in sex the more antigens will be released and the healthier you will become

4. Sex Lowers Your Blood Pressure.

Even if its just a quickie, some forms of physical contact can improve your blood pressure significantly. A study conducted by the University of Paisley found that sex reduces diastolic blood pressure which is the bottom number on a blood pressure reading making us healthier all around!

5. Sex Helps a Healthy Heart.

As our bodies burn calories, it also improves our heart health. Researchers from the New England Research Institute found that men are 45% less likely to suffer from cardiovascular diseases if they have regular sex.

6. Sex Helps Pain Relief.

If youre experiencing aches, pains or migraines then sex may be a better form of pain relief than pills! Arthritis specialist Dr. George Erlich conducted a study on his patients and found that those who had sex often experienced significantly less pain than their counterparts who went without.

7. Sex Ensures Regular Periods.

If your periods are a bit erratic, it could be down to a stressful lifestyle. As mentioned previously, sex reduces stress and so will also have an impact on your menstrual cycle!

8. Sex Creates Powerful Pelvic Muscles.

As well as quads, back and core muscles, sex also works out your pelvic muscles! Is there a better way of building muscle? I dont think so! By creating stronger pelvic muscles you also benefit by having better orgasms according to the National Health Service (NHS).

9. Sex Reduces The Risk Of Cancer.

Particularly for men, regular sex reduces the chances of developing cancer. In an Australian studypublished the Journal of the American Medical Association, it was found that men who ejaculated at least 21 times a month were much less likely to suffer form prostate cancer.

10. Sex Makes YouSleep Well.

Like exercise, sex increases your heart rate which leads to relaxation. In addition to this, its common knowledge that male ejaculation leads to lethargy which can make men extremely sleepy after sex.

11. Sex Makes You Look 10 Years Younger.

Having sex three times a week can apparently make you appear 10 years younger than your real age! In his book Secrets of the Superyoung, Scottish researcher and clinical neuropsychologist at the Royal Edinburgh Hospital, David Weeks states: Its good for you to have good sex. What more incentive do you need?

12. Sex Lengthens Your Life.

The ultimate culmination of all of these wonderful, positive effects regular sex has on our health and minds is that we will add years to our life spans. In fact, a study published in the British Medical Journal revealed that male participants who had sex regularly lived twice as long as those who rarely got any action!

So there you have it: there are officially no downsides to having sex regularly, so get at it!

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Published by Henry, on July 9th, 2016 at 7:06 pm. Filled under: DAILY SEX,HEALTHY SEX,LISTS. Tags: , , , , , | No Comments |

Woman quits her job to breastfeed her boyfriend

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SHE hasn’t breastfed for 20 years but that hasn’t stopped this woman from breastfeeding her boyfriend as part of their Adult Breastfeeding Relationship (ABR).

The Sun reports Jennifer Mulford from Atlanta “dry-feeds” her partner Brad Leeson, 36, every two hours.

Because she hasn’t breastfed in over 20 years, Ms Mulford has to trick her body into producing milk by dry-feeding and hand pumping regularly.

“I’ve taken a break from my job because I want to devote everything to making this work,” she said.

The bartender first came across ABR on a website.

“When I read about the pure joy it brought others, I was desperate to seek out a partner to share an emotional bond with.”

At the time she was a single mum so she started searching for men open to the idea of adult breastfeeding.

“I used dating sites, put messages on ABR forums and even put an advert on Craigslist, but I drew a blank. I started to think I’d never get to try adult breastfeeding.”

One night she was talking to Mr Leeson, an old boyfriend from school, and mentioned the idea.

“We were talking and Brad told me he had a thing for big-breasted women, and that size had always been a factor in his relationships.

“I thought it was the perfect time to bring up adult breastfeeding – and see if he’d be interested.”

She said it was like a light switch “flicked in his head”, she could tell he was curious and excited.

“At that moment I knew that I had a partner for life. We both wanted the same thing out of the relationship – a magical bond that only breastfeeding can achieve.”

The couple feed every two hours.

If Mr Leeson is out Ms Mulford uses a pump or hand-pumps. At night they set an alarm for “night feeds”.

“Nights have been a struggle because Brad sleeps so peacefully but we manage to cope – until he falls asleep latched onto me, which is beautiful,” she said.

She also said it has been tricky to get through nursing sessions without having sex.

“It’s been difficult to distinguish the difference between nurturing and sex.

“Although it’s so beautiful and peaceful it’s also erotic. It’s been hard to get through the first few nursing sessions without being tempted to have sex, but each time it’s getting easier,” Ms Mulford said.

Because Ms Mulford doesn’t have any milk to feed Mr Leeson, she also takes herbal pills and tea to imitate female hormones and increase or maintain milk supply.

Ms Mulford said Mr Leeson, a self-confessed gym buff, is excited about the health benefits of breast milk.

“Brad goes to the gym because it makes him feel good about himself knowing he is shape and living a healthy lifestyle. He also tells me all the time that he does it for me because he wants other women to feel jealous of what I have,” she said.

The couple say nursing is going well.

Ms Mulford expects it will take two months for her milk to come in.

She said Mr Leeson would like her to feed him in public but it is very private act for her.

“I’ll never say never but I love the time we spend nursing alone. It’s our time away from the rest of the world and I look forward to every feed.

“I can come home from a very stressful day and seconds after Brad latching on I feel a sense of peace and calm. For that time I feel like we become one. I have yet to feel anything more comforting.

“It’s a bond that no one can come between.”

They are hoping to get married in the future but say they won’t have any children together as they both have kids from previous relationships.

The couple also plan to breastfeed as long as they can.

“This is a lifestyle we have chosen. We look forward to years from now still needing and wanting each other.”

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Published by Henry, on June 10th, 2016 at 9:16 am. Filled under: ARRANGEMENTS,BABIES PREGNANCY,BREASTS,FOODS FRUITS DRINKS,PEOPLE,STRANGE ODD,WOMEN. Tags: , , | No Comments |

Making Love To Your Partner Daily will make these happy things happen

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Are you stressed? Struggling to sleep? Turns out there are a number of ailments that can be cured simply by having sex regularly. Here are twelve reasons why you and your partner should be having sex daily!

1. Sex Reduces Stress.

If youve had a long day at work or youre simply feeling a little overwhelmed, then sex will help you relax and reduce your stress levels! During sex our bodies produce dopamine, endorphins and oxytocin which together help us to de-stress, increases our natural happiness levels and enhances desire.

2. Sex Is An Enjoyable Exercise.

When faced with the word workout many of us will recoil in horror, unless of course that workout involves sex. Throughout sex our bodies are continually experiencing physiological changes that are consistent with an exercise routine. Our breathing rates rise which in turn burns calories, whichmeans that if you have sex just three times a week you can burn around 7,500 calories a year. Thats the same as running 75 miles!

3. Sex Helps YourImmune System.

Researchers at Wilkes University in Pennsylvania found that their students who stated they had sex at least twice a week had higher levels of particular antibodies than those who had no sex at all.During sex, antigens like immunoglobulin A are released which are proven to fight the common cold and even flu! Even more good news: the more frequently you engage in sex the more antigens will be released and the healthier youll get.

4. Sex Lowers Your Blood Pressure.

Even if its just a quickie, some forms of physical contact can improve your blood pressure significantly. A study conducted by the University of Paisley found that sex reduces diastolic blood pressure which is the bottom number on a blood pressure reading making us healthier all around!

5. Sex Helps a Healthy Heart.

As our bodies burn calories, it also improves our heart health. Researchers from the New England Research Institute found that men are 45% less likely to suffer from cardiovascular diseases if they have regular sex.

6. Sex Helps Pain Relief.

If youre experiencing aches, pains or migraines then sex may be a better form of pain relief than pills! Arthritis specialist Dr. George Erlich conducted a study on his patients and found that those who had sex often experienced significantly less pain than their counterparts who went without.

7. Sex Ensures Regular Periods.

If your periods are a bit erratic, it could be down to a stressful lifestyle. As mentioned previously, sex reduces stress and so will also have an impact on your menstrual cycle!

8. Sex Creates Powerful Pelvic Muscles.

As well as quads, back and core muscles, sex also works out your pelvic muscles! Is there a better way of building muscle? I dont think so! By creating stronger pelvic muscles you also benefit by having better orgasms according to the National Health Service (NHS).

9. Sex Reduces The Risk Of Cancer.

Particularly for men, regular sex reduces the chances of developing cancer. In an Australian studypublished the Journal of the American Medical Association, it was found that men who ejaculated at least 21 times a month were much less likely to suffer form prostate cancer.

10. Sex Makes YouSleep Well.

Like exercise, sex increases your heart rate which leads to relaxation. In addition to this, its common knowledge that male ejaculation leads to lethargy which can make men extremely sleepy after sex.

11. Sex Makes You Look 10 Years Younger.

Having sex three times a week can apparently make you appear 10 years younger than your real age! In his book Secrets of the Superyoung, Scottish researcher and clinical neuropsychologist at the Royal Edinburgh Hospital, David Weeks states: Its good for you to have good sex. What more incentive do you need?

12. Sex Lengthens Your Life.

The ultimate culmination of all of these wonderful, positive effects regular sex has on our health and minds is that we will add years to our life spans. In fact, a study published in the British Medical Journal revealed that male participants who had sex regularly lived twice as long as those who rarely got any action!

So there you have it: there are officially no downsides to having sex regularly, so get at it!

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Published by Henry, on April 29th, 2016 at 11:23 pm. Filled under: HEALTHY SEX. Tags: , , | No Comments |

The real truth about quickies

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Forget everything you’ve heard about quickies being a pale imitation of “real” sex. Research shows that sex in any quantity or duration is healthy for your sex life and your sex drive. Most people tend to think of quickies as a substitute for passionate, romantic lovemaking. Many sex therapists, however, disagree with this view and encourage couples to incorporate quickies into their sex lives. Not as the mainstay of one’s sex life, but certainly as added variety, because there are some definite benefits to even a speedy encounter.

Couples today list lack of desire, time, fatigue, pressure and stress as five of the biggest obstacles to a fulfilling sex life. They don’t have romantic weekend getaways every month, don’t come home to candle-lit bedrooms with rose petals scattered over the bed, and don’t have screaming orgasms as they make love for the fourth time that night.

Sometimes it’s a bit like this: “Do you want to?”, “Well, I suppose so”, followed by a half-hearted effort, before rolling over for much-needed sleep. This type of scenario calls for a “quickie fix”, and fast. Quickies work in part because sexual activity helps couples feel connected. Couples who feel sexually connected are more likely to get along outside the bedroom.

They communicate more effectively, feel more energised, are more affectionate and argue less. Lack of desire is still the leading sexual problem among women. Studies in the US have shown a direct link between engaging in sex and sexual desire. Sexual intercourse raises hormone levels in both men and women, which increases the brain chemicals associated with desire. The more often you have sex, the stronger your desire for sex becomes.

Quickies are also excellent for reintroducing passion into a sex life that has been long neglected. Many couples have a hard time prioritising sex. By the time they get to sex, after everything else on their must-do lists, they can feel too tired or stressed to bother. Couples also feel pressure to make each session a long, passionate and intimate encounter, with incredible orgasms for both, preferably at the same time.

Sex therapists who advocate quickies certainly promote longer lovemaking filled with foreplay as a component of a healthy sex life, but they do encourage couples to be realistic. A few 10-minute quickies can do more for your sex drive than waiting for that fatigue-free, uninterrupted night to come along. The best of both worlds lies in the balance. Try a few quickies to help get to your end goal of a hot sex life with long lovemaking sessions. A fast approach could very well lead to more frequent sex, with fantastic foreplay and a lot more fun in the bedroom!

Sometimes speedy sex can spice things up in the bedroom.

Need a quick fix?

For each statement, give yourself one point for “No” and two points for “Yes”

  • I am too tired for sex.
  • Sex is saved for nighttime.
  • Generally I am too stressed for sex.
  • My sex life lacks spontaneity.
  • Sex outside the bedroom is unusual.
  • Romance takes too much energy.
  • I feel disconnected from my partner when we haven’t had sex in a week.
  • I’d rather read a book than have sex.
  • Sex requires too much scheduling to bother doing it more than twice a week.
  • Sex is often done in a standard position.
  • I have trouble relaxing.
  • I don’t have time for a great sex life.

12-15 points: You place sex as a high priority and make time in your life for varied sexual expression. Quickies can be incorporated into your life, not as a remedy, but for the extra thrill.

16-19 points: There is room for improvement in your sex life. You may wish to work on your time management and relaxation techniques with the use of the occasional quickie.

20-24 points: Your sex life could definitely use a quick fix. Quickies will liberate you to have fun with sex again. Learn to arrange your priorities so your sex life doesn’t suffer.

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Published by Henry, on April 26th, 2016 at 8:21 pm. Filled under: QUICKIES. Tags: , , , , | No Comments |

Man dies while having intercourse with sex worker and gets wheeled away with the woman still attached

WARNING: Disturbing.

BIZARRE footage appears to show an elderly man who died while making love to a sex worker — then being wheeled away with the woman still attached.

The strange clip shows paramedics removing an alleged dead body on a hospital stretcher, complete with a moving silhouette of a woman still on top.

The woman and the old man are both hidden under a blue blanket, with a crowd of people congregating to watch on in horror.

The video first appeared on the Chinese video sharing website Miaopai and was later shared on LiveLeak with the title: “Old man died while having sex with a prostitute”.

The bizarre incident is believed to have taken place in China, although the exact location remains unknown.

Strange … the bizarre incident is believed to have taken place in China, although the exact location remains unknown.

Dying during sex is uncommon, however it is not unheard of and it can occur because of an increased strain on the heart while in the throes of passion.

The strain can lead to a sudden cardiovascular attack — and this is more common among men.

It is also possible to become ‘stuck’ to someone during a fumble. This rare event is known as ‘penis captivus’, which can occur when vaginal muscles clamp down too firmly.

Combining this with the fact that when a penis is in the vagina it becomes increasingly swollen, becoming stuck becomes even easier.

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Caught on camera … the feet of the corpse and what appears to be the woman’s legs.

Dr John Dean, a UK-based sexual physician, told the BBC: “The muscles of the woman’s pelvic floor contract rhythmically at orgasm. While those muscles contract the penis becomes stuck and further engorged.”

It is only once the vaginal muscles relax, causing the blood to flow out of the penis, that it can be withdrawn.

It is not yet known what happened to this particular pair — or how they were separated.

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Complaints over an ad showing “bound and gagged” Santa Claus for lingerie brand Honey Birdette have been upheld by the Advertising Standards Bureau (ASB) for showing sexual violence.

The two poster ads were shown in Honey Birdette stores in Westfield shopping centres. One showed a woman in red lingerie standing over a Santa Clause figure on the ground, the other showed a woman standing over a gagged Santa, with the words ‘Silent Night’ over the top.

However the ad drew a spate of complaints for sexuality, objectification and violence.

One complainant noted: “The ad uses an easily recognisable childhood icon – Santa Claus – to draw attention to advertising for a sex shop which masquerades as a high end lingerie store.

“Santa is bound and gagged in a somewhat demeaning activity (bondage), which is displayed at my children’s eye-level.”

“Children will naturally be attracted to the image of Santa Clause and especially as he seems to have fallen over. It could create concern for them…the connection between Santa and sex is so wrong.”

While the ASB dismissed concerns that the poster was objectifying the woman in the images, it did uphold complaints over the use of violence.

“The board noted that Santa is bound and gagged and that this is a depiction of violence,” the ASB says in its determination.

“The majority of the board also considered that the image of Santa bound and tied in conjunction with the depiction of the woman in her lingerie standing over him while he is bound could be seen by people as suggestive of sexual violence and the expression on Santa’s face would appear to strengthen this suggestion.”

In response, Honey Birdette noted that the signage as been removed following the Christmas period but that it did experience its “strongest sales ever”.

“We actually refute the claim that “the image is extremely degrading to women as the woman is placed as a sexualised object” – perhaps the complaint came from someone who did not understand that we sell lingerie,” Honey Birdette says in the statement.

“In order to market and advertise lingerie, we need to show a model wearing it, however we do this in a way that empowers women rather than demean or degrade them.”

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