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The surprising male body types women prefer according to PornHub search survey

Women are an elusive and confusing breed. Loose and aggressive with their opinions on things a man couldn’t care less about, like shoes, but ask her what she wants for dinner and you’d have more luck asking a mule—and he’d probably be less stubborn. So, you would be excused for having no idea what women look for in a man. Bad boy? Hairy? Good boy? Beard? Clean shaven? So many chances to get it wrong. You know how it goes. Well, I have some fantastic news for you, and your wife or ladyfriend probably isn’t going to like it (you’re probably used to disappointing her by now). Thanks to Pornhub (is there anything they can’t do?), we finally know exactly what women really want their man’s body to look like.

You see them rippling on the covers of romance novels and grinning like assholes on magazines in the checkout line, but do women really prefer these toned and tanned Fabiosos or have you been slaving away, trying to turn that keg into a six-pack for nothing? First of all, according to PornHub, women emphatically prefer girl-on-girl porn and threesome’s. Let’s just get that out of the way. She’s definitely been lying to you about that. And I quote, “The most popular porn searched by women is ‘lesbian’ and has been so for a number of years now.”

Before I get to the good news, I’m about to crush more dreams than Star Search. Fucking Ed McMahon. The second most popular porn search for women was, of course, “big d*ck”. So, yeah, I guess women still like dudes with pythons in their pants. Now the good news…

Rocking that “dad bod” this summer, or just into roleplaying that whole “daddy” thing? Well, you’re in luck. Next to “hairy”, the most searched term in regards to men’s body types is “dad”. And, while this is good news for those of us who prefer meat and beer to veggies and bran, it opens up a whole new set of questions.

There you have it. Want to really please your gal? Grow out that beer belly and leave the clippers under the sink! And maybe tell her she’s a very bad girl and ground her? Be that fuzzy, comfortable daddy-bear she’s craving and one other porn preference frequently searched by women—threesomes—could be in your future. But probably not.


Henry Sapiecha


Man ‘kept girl in cave as sex slave for 15 years’

An elderly Indonesian witch doctor has been arrested on accusations he kept a woman as his sex slave for 15 years, beginning when she was a 12-year-old girl.

An elderly village witch doctor in Indonesia entrapped a 12-year-old girl and tricked her into having sex with him for the next 15 years by claiming to be possessed by the “jin”, or spirit, of a young boy, police said on Tuesday.

The woman, an identified by police as “H”, was rescued on Sunday in Tolitoli regency, in Central Sulawesi province.

Acting on a tip-off, police said they had found the woman, who was now aged 28, in a rocky crevice in a jungle near Bajugan village, where she had been held during the day since her disappearance in 2003.

At night, police said she stayed in a hut near the house of the 83-year old man, identified by police as JG

The man identified as JG.
Indonesian Police

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Central Sulawesi Police Chief Muhammad Iqbal Alqudusy & he said the man had shown the girl a picture of a boy named Amrin “who she thought was her boyfriend”.

“She was falsely led to believe that Amrin’s spirit had entered (the elderly man’s) body,” Iqbal said on Tuesday at a news conference that was posted online. “It is obvious that he was satisfying his lust.”

Indonesia is a predominantly Muslim country but old beliefs about spirits and other paranormal activity are still held by some.

Iqbal later told Reuters the woman said she had been engaging in intercourse with “Jin Amrin” since 2003 “but she was really having sex with JG”.

The man, he said, admitted to having sexual relations since 2008 with the girl.

Police said they found the woman after her sister alerted neighbours she was closeby.

According to the Jakarta Post, the sister was married to the son of the shaman, known for his traditional healing methods and abilities to channel spirits.

The man explained the victim’s disappearance to her parents by stating she had gone to Indonesia’s capital, Jakarta, to get work, the newspaper reported.

The man has been charged with offences under Indonesia’s child protection laws, which carry a maximum sentence of 15 years in prison.


Henry Sapiecha

Published by Henry, on August 8th, 2018 at 7:06 pm. Filled under: CHILDREN,PRISONER CAPTIVE. Tags: , , , , | No Comments |

As a GP, I see far too many young females suffer through painful sex

Painful sex is rather common. In my work as a GP, I see a steady stream of moderately uneasy 22-year-olds, underwhelmed by their sex lives and ashamed of it.

I see one, and then there’s a spate of their friends. They think there is something wrong with their body. They say sex has always been painful, and for some of them it’s now agony, but they grit their teeth and make the noises they have picked up from movies.

Young women are presenting to GPs complaining of painful sex.

Photo: Stocksy

For some women it eventually becomes unbearable. Some of them don’t know what it feels like to be physically aroused, after three or four years of sexual activity. That is a shameful tragedy. To those 22-year-olds, I say the following.

It could be thrush, bladder irritability, pelvic muscle spasm, chlamydia, endometriosis. We will consider those options. But we must bear in mind that many young guys are watching porn sold to them by people who have a vested interest in dehumanising women. They’re not exactly learning from the Sensei of Superlovers.

Professor Gail Dines, anti-pornographer scholar and activist, puts it simply: “Men learn about sex from mainly porn, and in porn nothing is too painful or degrading for women.”

Pain while having sex is reported at something between six and 25 per cent of women, but research into the effect of increasing porn consumption on female sexual dysfunction is mostly anecdotal.

The anecdotes go like this: more and more women are reporting a first sexual experience that sounds like a guy copying something he’s seen in a hardcore porn flic.

And the vagina does not forget.

The thing with dyspareunia (penetrative sex that hurts) is that each painful experience entrenches subconscious fear and aversion, which leads to pain and dryness, which leads to fear and aversion, which leads to panic and frustration, which leads to pain and dryness, and the cycle continues.

Many women don’t tell their partner because they don’t want him to think he can’t turn them on. Some guys don’t know their partner is in pain; she is too good at faking. They are trying to be good lovers but rather than asking the real, live woman in front of them, they choose to do their research online. Most just don’t know what to do when a woman’s vagina closes like a slamming door, which is what happens if you have enough painful sex.

The solution? Time.

The treatment for established dyspareunia is essentially to stop having penetrative sex for a significant period of time. Like, months. This is an excellent test of a relationship and takes an investment of trust, dedication, time and love. It’s also an opportunity for everyone to get really good at oral sex. At least that’s how I frame it when the jaws drop in dismay. You could also circumnavigate each other’s naked bodies and map all the erogenous zones, or at get really good at mahjong.

Investing in your next 60 years of sex is worthwhile and, really, why would you even want to be with someone who didn’t like making you happy-moan? The best kind of guy will accept the challenge.

Vaginas are clever; they have long memories. When the signals for impending sex come in they remember the pain and close up shop, which obviously makes some things more painful. Resetting this response means the brain, nerves, vagina and vulva all need to forget that sex is like having your nails extracted while you have to keep smiling.

Gradual, calm, and enjoyable reintroduction of penetration by various methods is the key: her fingers, followed weeks after by his fingers under the guidance of her fingers. Lubrication is our friend, and should be purchased in bulk. The penis is last to be invited to the party, and sends a polite request for admission prior to his arrival.

Most of the time women complaining of painful sex do not have any physical abnormality, but it’s worth seeing a doctor to rule out some easily fixed culprits, particularly if you’ve previously had non-painful sex and now it’s painful. Pelvic physiotherapists can help with muscle retraining and relaxation. A psychologist can assist if anxiety is part of the issue.

I don’t like to use the word “should” but I’ll make this one exception.

Sex should be fun and funny. It should be good. You should be able to express your desires, because they are good desires.

It’s okay to want foreplay without penetrative sex. It’s okay to not be ready for penetration three seconds after someone throws you against a wall. It’s okay to pause and chat a while, to say you don’t want anal sex, or to call time on painful sex. It’s okay to turn genitalia into puppets and reenact Les Miserables if it helps you get comfy with each others’ parts. If arousal sometimes takes 45 minutes of him touching your ankle while you watch Tangled, then so be it.

For only once you’ve mastered the rules can you break them.

Dr Elizabeth Oliver is a Sydney GP. She tweets at @thatladydoctor.


Henry Sapiecha


Why I am cheating on my partner. Their stories.

Here’s a sobering thought: every day an average of 15,500 new members sign up to adultery website Ashley Madison, according to a 2017 analysis it commissioned from accountancy giants Ernst & Young. And a recent poll conducted by Ashley Madison also revealed that while 61 per cent of its members worldwide were motivated by the idea of “satisfying sex”, 44 per cent cited “affection” as their main reason and 30 per cent were “chasing the feeling of butterflies”.

“I’m far more intoxicated with the hand-holding, the hugs, the long conversations and the eye contact.Photo: Stocksy

Kerrie James, of Relationships Australia NSW, says that while sex is a common reason given for infidelity, things are often more complicated.

“There are as many reasons as there are people having affairs,” she explains. “It could be that the person cheating isn’t happy in their current relationship, or feeling particularly committed to it. Or they could be coming to the realisation the person they’re married to isn’t necessarily the right person for them.

“But it could also be something as simple as feeling attracted to someone else, even when they are no less attracted to their own partner.” Here, three people explain why they’re cheating on their partner.

WAYNE*, 42

Four children, married for 22 years. He has had a girlfriend for over six years.

“I tried for a very long time to get my wife to go to marriage counselling, but she wasn’t interested in any of it. Even though she’d made it obvious & clear she didn’t want a bar of me physically or emotionally, whenever I pushed the topic [of counselling] she insisted we were OK. We were far from fine; we were two people who’d married and started a family at a young age, now sharing a roof and a mortgage like two strangers under the one roof. It’s a lonely miserable way to live.

Most people think men who have affairs are just after sex, but that’s far from the truth in my situation. Obviously sex with someone who truly wants to be intimate with you is a benefit you can’t discount, but I’m far more intoxicated with the hand-holding, the hugs, the long conversations and the eye contact.

I know it must sound silly, but I don’t think people realise how much it means to have your partner look up when you enter a room and maintain eye contact as you speak with them. It makes you feel important and as though your opinions and your thoughts are valued. For me, that has been the biggest plus factor of meeting my girlfriend, Nancy*.

Nancy is married with children, so we have a common shared understanding of how our relationship must work. When we first met, we spent time drafting up some guidelines we follow to this day – rules such as when and what we use to contact each other and how regularly we can meet up.

The sex is exciting and I think a part of that is because we know we’re doing something we’re not meant to be doing, but there’s also an excitement in finding places where we can do it, such as hotels, parks and cars. On the flipside, when you’re trying to coordinate two separate family schedules and all of their sporting, social and extracurricular commitments, as well as full-time jobs, it’s also a logistical hellish nightmare. We have a strong connection, but we’re always careful not to cross any lines we’ve drawn.

Being with Nancy has made me happy in ways I’d long given up, but that doesn’t mean I’m without guilt or remorse. One thing I am without is a plan, because I don’t know where my future with my wife lies or what will happen next. For now I’m just plodding along day by day and waiting for the chips to fall where they may.”

LINDA*, 38

One child, married over 12 years. She has been having an “emotional affair” with a work ex-colleague for 18 months.

“If you’d asked me whether I was having an affair one year ago, I would have laughed. Back then, I hadn’t heard the term ’emotional affair’, which made my relationship with Matt* that much easier to gloss over.

I hid my true emotions behind words like ‘friendship’, but even then I knew how I really felt about him. I mean, you don’t often spend most of your waking hours daydreaming about someone who isn’t your husband, now do you?

I guess I’m fortunate that emotional connections are easier to hide than physical intimacy. My husband hasn’t got any idea.

Matt has a really easy & comforting way of talking to people that I was drawn to from the minute I met him. When we were working together, we would meet sometimes for coffee or lunch and I’d leave amazed at how much I opened up to him – I was telling him stuff I’d never told anyone, and it didn’t seem like such a big deal.

When he found a new job a few months after that, I took the news pretty badly. The first day I walked into the office to find someone else in his seat felt gut-wrenching, and I realised then just how much I looked forward to seeing him every day. He soon texted to say he missed my company, too. From that point on, everything between us just intensified.

It’s hard to describe the relationship I have with Matt, but I guess the best way to describe it is non-physical – we’ve never even kissed – but with a strong emotional connection that makes me really crave his company in a way I don’t with any other friend.male or female.

He makes me feel attractive, wanted and interesting in a way that I haven’t felt in a long time – certainly not since I became a mum. Some days he’ll pick me up from work and we’ll sit parked in his car and talk for hours, but I’ll tell my husband I was at a work function. Other times, he’ll come to dinner at our house with his wife and we’ll all eat together ‘like mates’.

It’s awkward, and I’m forever constantly lying to my husband, but at the same time there’s a thrill to having this secret part to my life no one knows about.

I don’t have any plans to turn what I have with Matt into a physical affair and I don’t think he would ever make a move. We’ve both agreed that even though we’re attracted to each other, we love our partners too much to ever hurt them. We’ll just take this as a chance to feel some excitement in an otherwise monotonous life until things run their course. Isn’t that the point of all affairs?”

CAROL*, 30

Three children, married for six years. She joined Ashley Madison a year ago and has had sex encounters with a succession of married men.

“Marriage gave me three awesome children, but motherhood meant I also lost sight of the person I used to be. Before the kids, I was wild & provocative– always the first one on the dance floor – but over the last so many years it feels like my life has been nothing but a forever endless cycle of dirty nappies, sleep-settling and playground visits.

Joe* and I had problems before we were married, but with the stress of raising three young kids, those problems have only intensified. I carry a lot of resentment.

I first went online to boost my self-confidence. Your body changes so much when you have children and I had no idea if I’d ever be able to attract anyone again.

Six months after my youngest was born, I created a profile just to see what other men thought of me. I was thrilled to discover there were plenty of men who didn’t see me as a mum, but as a hot-blooded female. A month after I started chatting with men on the site, I met someone I got on with.

He invited me to his house while his wife and child were out. It was a spontaneous sex act, and the experience was daunting and exciting all at the same time.

I never saw that guy again, but there have been other men since. At the moment, I’m seeing a site regular who’s going through a divorce. Once a fortnight, I put the kids in day care while my husband is at work and I drive out to the hotel to meet him for the afternoon.

I’m not delusional; nobody is looking for love. It’s just a few hours fulfilling animalistic sexual urges we all have before we return to our normal humdrum lives, with all the everyday stresses they contain. During that time, I don’t have to be Mum and I don’t have to be Wife, I can just be Carol.

I know it sounds selfish, but I’m not sure I am. I guess I feel a small bit of guilt every so often, but for the most part I feel rather empowered.

Being with good-looking men has made me feel better about myself, and the sex my husband and I have has improved as a result. We’d never stopped being intimate, but it’s even better now that I can find different ways to please him with all the new tricks I’ve been picking up.

Cheating on my husband isn’t a forever journey and I know I can stop whenever I want. For the moment, I’m taking what I need and I’m enjoying myself while I can, but I plan to eventually recommit to my marriage.

* Names have been changed for obvios reasons.


Henry Sapiecha


Went from being a female prison officer to becoming a super hot sexy woman porn star

FACING off against global competition was not easy, admits Melburnian Isabelle Deltore. But winning Miss Nude World 2018 was just the confirmation she needed that a drastic career change had all been worth it.

She’s now a “nude glamour babe and webcam model”, but just a few years ago Ms Deltore had a very different profession as an officer locking up men at some of Australia’s toughest prisons.

Talking to on the sidelines of the recent Sexpo event in Sydney, where she was performing and selling merchandise, Ms Deltore said she left the prison service for porn because she was “being objectified” by the criminals.

Isabelle Deltore from Melbourne used to work in the Victorian prison system. Picture: Isabelle Deltore

Money wise, and in terms of self-esteem, she said she’s never looked back.

“I do pornography, but the technical term is ‘erotica’ because I only do solo and girl on girl but I don’t do boy girl stuff and it’s that which crosses it over to pornography. But the industry is so small so quite often we don’t differentiate between erotica and pornography.”

Rather than men looking at her – as they do now in their droves on stage and online – she was once the one keeping a beady eye on the blokes.

“I was a screw, an officer, in youth justice and I was in maximum security for five years. I was in the army reserves as well.”

But the grind of working in the prison system, and the office politics, wore down Ms Deltore.

Isabelle Deltore is a regular at Sexpo adult events. Picture: Isabelle Deltore

“I was very good at what I did but I was constantly fighting to move up the chain and I was never going to win,” she said.

“I was just sick of the violence, sick of the sexual innuendo; I was constantly being objectified and was like ‘why not make money out of (being objectified)’?

“I couldn’t figure out what I was going to do so I decided to be a secret stripper until I could get another job with my degree. But I just liked stripping too much.”

The vastly increased remuneration she received at famous strip club Spearmint Rhino also focused her mind.

“This is definitely more lucrative. I wasn’t on the (prison) roster, I’d done my last shift, and then I went into Spearmint Rhino and made what I would have made into two weeks in one night.

“At 4am, I sent the prison an email saying I resign. I was like, see you later.”

Ms Deltore has been the cover story of porn mags, has her own products such as calendars, and is a XXX webcam star. For a $100 you can even buy some one-on-one nude Skype time with her.

Ms Deltore from Melbourne won the Miss Nude World 2018. Picture: Isabelle Deltore

“With my current line of work everyone knows what’s on the table. Maybe me? Maybe not..!! If they want to buy a lap dance, well here are the boundaries, we’re exchanging money for it so it’s very out in the open.

“Previously I would complain if I had some officer or prisoner make a pass at me. Now I’m much happier and my self-esteem has increased.”

But being a prison officer has taught her a few lessons, she said, including managing her time and being disciplined. And she knows how to handle the frisky fingers of over excited punters.

“I was managing units of 20-40 inmates and staff so I know how to deal with people who are a little bit difficult, how to be assertive without being aggressive.

“And it’s the same dealing with blokes; you be honest and go this is the line. You will sometimes get an ‘ah but’ from one, but my response is ‘no I’m not dealing with your buts mate’.”

Erotic photography is a big change from locking up prisoners. Picture: Isabelle Deltore

That discipline and assertiveness has helped her nab the Miss Nude World crown twice now, once in 2015 and again this year.

“I don’t know when to stop working. I will set goals and I will do everything I can to achieve them to the detriment of everything else.


“When I wanted to win Miss Nude World I tried for months. I had to learn aerial hoop from scratch so one of my trainers was from Cirque du Soleil and it was 30 hours a week as well as dance classes, choreography and costume making. It almost cost me my relationship because I was overly focused.

“Miss Nude World is not just about doing the pole and taking your clothes off. You have to be an all-round show girl; you’re judged on if you have that pizzazz factor. I had some massive props including a two metre high horse that spun on a disc and spat water out of its nose,” she said.

“I’m not even joking; it’s for sale if anyone wants it.”

Ms Deltore performed one of her Miss Nude World shows at Sexpo in Sydney, the adult event that travels to Adelaide in August. She said she loved appearing on stage but her performances, some of which have a Mad Max theme, can be tiring.

“It can be so busy and everyone wants a piece of you, at times I can feel like a packet of Maccas chips in a car park with seagulls all over it. You’re like ‘please I just need a minute to myself’.”

In her downtime, she meditates, practices her archery skills and is looking forward to an addition to the family: “I have a Clydesdale horse and she’s in foal so we’re all waiting.”

What about kicking back with Netflix and having a chill? Ms Deltore laughed: “I usually Netflix and pass out because I’m so exhausted.”

Despite being in the erotic industry for five years now, once in a while she comes face-to-face with her previous career.

“I’ve had (sex) prisoners come see me and say they just can’t work out where they know me from,” she said.

“And once I had the general manager of a prison spot me when I was doing a pub show.

“He said to me, ‘you seem much happier now’ and I was like, ‘I feel much happier now’.”

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Henry Sapiecha

Published by Henry, on July 1st, 2018 at 8:16 pm. Filled under: JOBS CAREERS,LAW POLICE COURTS,PIC GALLERY,PORN STARS. Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , | No Comments |

Armed with a deadly machete she hid behind ex-boyfriend’s bedroom door then forced him to have sex: police

Montana: Late on Friday night, police in Great Falls, Montana,USA received a call from a male in distress: he had arrived home to find his ex-girlfriend hiding behind his bedroom door, wielding a machete.

She had broken into the house while he was absent, he said, and when he opened the door and walked into his room, she approached him from behind and held the machete to his throat.

Then, according to a probable cause affidavit, she told him to remove his clothes.

Samantha Ray Mears, 19, now faces six charges after police say she forced the man to have sex with her at machete-knife point, damaged his property and fled just as the police were arriving.

She has been charged with aggravated battery, assault with a weapon, unlawful restraint, partner family member assault as well as two counts of criminal mischief.

It was not clear whether Mears had a lawyer representing her. She allegedly told police the man kidnapped her and then gave her a machete to protect herself, the Great Falls Tribune reported.

The unidentified man told police that, once she told him to undress, she ordered him onto the bed. He complied because he feared for his life. Mears then took off her pants, climbed on top of him and began having sex with him, still holding the machete, the affidavit alleges.

When the man tried to push her off, she bit him on the arm and kept going, he said.

“After the intercourse, Mears sat on the bed, still armed with the machete, with her back against the wall,” the affidavit said.

An argument started as soon as the sex ended, the man said, prompting Mears to rip a piece of trim off his wall and then urinate on his bed, according to the affidavit.

He found an opportune moment to step away & pretend to call someone named “Doug”, but he was really calling 911.

Police say Mears fled just as the police were pulling up at the residence.

The man supplied his evidence once they arrived, according to the affidavit: a bite mark on his arm and photos he took while Mears sat on the bed with her machete.

Mears has a long history of assault charges against the man, whom she had been dating for around seven years, the Great Falls Tribune reported.

The Washington Post


Henry Sapiecha

Published by Henry, on June 28th, 2018 at 6:47 pm. Filled under: COURT CASES LEGALS,RAPE SEXUAL ABUSE. Tags: , , , , | No Comments |

Aussie escort says sex workers are being left to work the streets

AUSTRALIAN sex workers have been left homeless, losing hundreds of dollars a week resorting to dangerous street hooker work because of a US law which has forced the closure of classified advertising websites.

Melbourne-based escort Alice Grey said she is one of the lucky ones even though she is copping losses of around $1000 a week because of the closure of classified advertising websites Backpage and Cracker.

However, people she knows in the industry have been left out of work or struggling in ultra-competitive brothel and parlour work to get by.

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“I am extremely thankful that I managed to build up my brand before these sites closed down, but I’ve lost a massive chunk of my clients,” the 24-year-old with a Masters in Genetics told

“The industry is not a happy place at the moment and there are people, my friends, out there who are homeless because of this.”

The closure of popular classified advertising websites such as Craigslist, Backpage and Cracker began when US President Donald Trump signed a combined bill into law known as FOSTA (Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act) SESTA (Stop Enabling Sex-Trafficking Act) in the hope of combating illegal sex trafficking online

Alice Grey said her friends have been left homeless because of the website closures.

Because Aussie sex workers use the America-based websites to advertise their services, President Trump’s new law directly affects them.

“I went without work for almost three weeks when Backpage and Cracker websites first went down, and had no way to ensure short notice to pay my bills during that time without using savings,” Ms Grey said.

“I was lucky to have had savings, and that this time without work was limited. Backpage went down on April 7 and a friend of mine hasn’t had any sex work since.”

She said others have tried going to brothel work which, in Melbourne, can pit up to 60 girls against each other as they compete for maybe just one client.

“Sometimes you are lucky to get one client and, even then, the parlour takes a cut of up to 60 per cent,” she said.

“So you might be working a 12-hour overnight shift and just make a lousy $100.

“That isn’t enough to cover your phone bill, electricity bills, rent or food. Sometimes you don’t even make enough to cover your Uber trip home for the night.”

She said sex workers in desperation are turning to the streets to find work, which she says is far more dangerous than advertising on the net. She says terrified Aussie workers have heard horror stories of a recent spike in sex workers being raped, abducted and murdered in the US as they worked on the streets, but they feel as if they have no other option.

However, another sex worker Jessie Lee Pierce, told Cracker and Backpage were “vile” because they attracted “sick” clients.

She said one wanted to act out a rape scene with her and another asked her if she would have sex with animals.

Jessie Lee Pierce says Cracker and Backpage attracted “vile” clients. Picture: Twitter

“My worst scary inquiry experience was from a man who wanted me to visit his house,” Ms Pierce said. “Once I was there he wanted to tie me up, gag me, strangle me, and he described what sounded like an eiry organised rape.

“The explicit detail of the sexual acts really got to me. I never responded and I contacted Backpage and asked them to immediately pull my ad and never used the website again.

“I’ve seen ads on Backpage where girls were advertising unprotected sex for $50, that attracts a certain demographic.”

However, Ms Pierce added she was disapointed by the closure of the classified website because of the impact it has had on her friends & associates in the sex industry.

Ms Grey said another massive blow from the closure of the major classified advertising websites was the lack of flexibility offered by the other existing websites.

She said the classified websites allowed workers to “bump” their advert with an extra small fee, so they could promote themselves when it suited them to work.

Some of the remaining websites have a flat fee to place adverts, which means it’s more difficult for escorts to work part-time, for example to support their studies or other work.

Ms Grey added the closures have made travelling to work in other states has now become financially risky, because escorts can’t “bump” their adverts when they arrive at a new venue.

“Travelling interstate to work is extremely important for escorts,” she said. “It’s like when a band releases a new album, you have to go out there and promote yourself and your brand.

“If you get five clients, it would be a good trip. But, since Backpage and Cracker websites have closed down it’s become far too risky to make the interstate trips.”

Henry Sapiecha

Published by Henry, on June 17th, 2018 at 6:31 pm. Filled under: JOBS CAREERS,PROSTITUTION,WEB SITES,WOMEN,WORK SEX. Tags: , , , , , | No Comments |

Samantha the sex robot is now here and so are the comments

Samantha the sex robot “who has a brain and can tell jokes” is finally available for $4,280. She can even switch from sex mode to family mode. Because what wife and kids doesn’t wanna hang with daddy’s new sex robot?

Most importantly though, people seem to be less worried about the upcoming robopocalypse and more concerned about her becoming just another needy girlfriend.

Henry Sapiecha

Published by Henry, on June 11th, 2018 at 10:44 pm. Filled under: ANDROIDS AI,ROBOTS & SEX. Tags: , , , , , , | No Comments |

Facts about the female orgasm that’ll blow your… mind (25 Images)

The various things about female orgasms that you probably always wanted to know

Women don’t need to have their vagina stimulated in order to achieve an orgasm. This can be done through anal stimulation, kissing, fondling of other body parts, and even (for a small amount of women) just by mere thought.

Around 55% of American women have used a vibrator at some stage in their life.

It turns out that females can prematurely orgasm. This is great, other than the fact that afterwards, they can jump right back into it again. Whereas us guys need a little bit more time, so it’s still worse. A 2011 study showed that 40% of the women in the study experienced orgasms prior to the time that they wanted to during intercourse. However, this was only considered chronic in 3% of them

Orgasms can genuinely help with pain. Headache sufferers often find that orgasms help calm their headaches.

Contrary to popular belief, there is only one type of orgasm for women. There isn’t a clitoral orgasm and a vaginal orgasm, or even an anal orgasm. It’s all one & the same orgasm, but you can achieve it in a variety of ways

You can die from orgasms. Well… if there’s any one way to go, then that would be it I suppose. Don’t be concerned, this is incredibly uncommon.

A study in 2014 showed us that lesbians tend to experience orgasms more frequently than heterosexual females do during the sex act. According to the study, 61.6% of heterosexual females experience frequent orgasms during sex, while 74.7% of lesbians experience orgasms during sex. Hey, they have the advantage of knowing all the tricks maybe.

There are women who have reported having orgasms while getting tattooed.

Squirting is a very real thing. Not every woman can do it, but when they do, it’s quite intense for the female. Furthermore, it isn’t pee. A lot of people seem to think it’s pee. It’s not pee. It’s not jizz either, though. Some women’s urethral sponge is filled with a fluid that is similar to ejaculate fluid but contains no semen.

Vibrators were once used by doctors to treat hysteria. We’ve all heard about this, and that’s because it’s true! This is no joke. The first vibrators used for this, however, were steam powered, which is kind of interesting.

Women can experience orgasms during physical workouts. With the right muscles constantly engaged, and maybe the help of some particular sitting positions (and a nice seat?) you can experience an orgasm.

Women who ‘mix things up’ when in the bedroom are likelier to have frequent orgasms.

Around .5% of women have had an orgasm whilst giving birth.

There has been one documented case of a women experiencing an orgasm from brushing her teeth.

Some women have been known to faint when they orgasm. There have even been reports of heat failure via orgasm, but it is a very rare (and unfortunate) circumstance.

Gentlemen, if your girl is faking an orgasm, there are easy ways to tell. Look for her increased heart rate, rhythmic contractions in her lower abdomen, arched feet, pelvic thrusts and dilated pupils.

Kegel exercises (working out of the vagina) can help improve both the quantity of orgasms and the quality of orgasms a woman can experience. They aid in sexual arousal, lubrication, and orgasm achievability.

When women experience an orgasm, their bodies release oxytocin, which increases their feelings of affection & love. The strength of the female orgasm relies on how much oxytocin is in her system at the time of orgasm.


Multiples orgasms are very far from being just a myth. A study of 800 female college graduates found that approximately 43% reported having had multiple orgasms. So presicely what is a multiple orgasm?

According to Dr. Streicher. “Some women experience long, cascading orgasms, where you continue to have strong rhythmic pelvic contractions for some time. And then there are orgasms where you have that over-satisfied sensation which stops and then, with more stimulation, starts again.”

Findings have shown us that the moment that you achieve an orgasm literally makes you .to feel fearless and stronger than ever. Your self-reflection activity and fear dramatically decrease during orgasm. It’s too bad that they’re so damn just not long enough.

Does your female S/O hate anal play? Maybe suggest that nearly 95% of women can orgasm through anal sex.

The clitoris is made of the same material as the penis head and contains approx. 8,000 nerve endings.

Not every woman experiences the mind-blowing, bed-rocking, exorcism inducing orgasms that we visualise. In fact, some women don’t even know when they’ve orgasmed exactly. Rather, they feel a certain feeling of “completion and satisfaction.”

Studies are disclosing that older women are experiencing more orgasms than younger women are. A recent study showed us that 61% of females having sex between the ages of 18 and 24 experienced an orgasm the last time they got jiggy. For women ages 40+ that number shoots up to 70%. The Cougars rule?

A female orgasm can last anywhere from 15 seconds to 2 minutes. It’s different for each individual, but on average, the female orgasm usually lasts anywhere between 15 and 20 seconds.

Henry Sapiecha


Published by Henry, on June 11th, 2018 at 9:56 pm. Filled under: HOW TO & DIY,ORGASMS,WOMEN. Tags: , , , | No Comments |

Woman couldn’t orgasm for 10 years

A BURLESQUE dancer who couldn’t have an orgasm during sex for almost ten years was labelled “too difficult to please” by her lovers.

Amy Gledhill, from Leicester, has a rather rare condition called situational anorgasmia – meaning she can’t climax in certain circumstances, The Sun reports.

The 26-year-old construction worker, who also works as a burlesque dancer, was so ashamed of her condition that she would hide under the sheets during sex.

Now in a loving relationship, she still at times struggles to climax.

The 26-year-old used to be so ashamed of the condition that she would hide under the sheets during sex. Picture: Facebook

Ms Gledhill told the Mail Online she had underwent psychosensual treatment with relationships and sex mentor Colin Richards to help get to the root of her problem.

“Being so open about sex and relationships, people are often surprised that I have situational anorgasmia but I don’t think they put this and the burlesque together,” she said.

Amy first noticed something was wrong when she was 17 and says she was unable to climax with a partner either during sex or when masturbating in front of them.

She soon realised that she could only experience an orgasm when by herself.

“You read magazines and hear all the different ways to give and receive sexual pleasure, and see multiple orgasms in porn, and you just assume every woman is capable of such easy pleasure,” she said.

After some years of feeling something was wrong, Ms Gledhill became self-conscious and felt “under pressure to perform”.

“In the past, comments were made that I’m ‘difficult’ to please. That breaks down the bond you’d ideally like to have with a partner and makes it seem very one-sided,” she said.

“As relationships have gone on and I’ve become more comfortable with partners, I have been able to relax more and found a way of masturbating with them to achieve orgasm during a sexual encounter.

“I was still always aware that they felt somewhat disappointed that they had not been able to make me orgasm directly or through penetrative sex.”

She underwent psychosensual treatment with a relationships and sex mentor to help get to the root of her problem. Picture: Facebook

Ms Gledhill has now been in a relationship with Mike Rollason for over a year and says he is more supportive than past lovers, and prepared to spend more time “finding out what I like and what turns me on.”

“We communicate so much more and a genuine connection also helps as well as my own experience over time,” she said.

Earlier this year, Ms Gledhill sought the assistance of Colin Richards, founder of Intimacy Matters.

She partook in a workshop as a “volunteer massage receiver” to help her deal with her body confidence and shyness issues.

During a three hour psychosensual treatment, which combined counselling and intimate bodywork, they explored her childhood, teen years and relationships.

“We discussed a few different things that may have affected me.”

They concluded that her shyness meant she struggled to make her voice heard, fearing what she had to say was not “worth people’s time.”

“My sexual openness and personal guidance from Colin has helped me achieve a better personal sexual understanding,” Ms Gledhill said.

She said she now has better sexual understanding which has helped her sex life. Picture: Facebook

She added that she now has “orgasms during sex with my partner that I never thought I would ever experience.”

She has now set up her own business, Sensual Touch Massage, to help other women with issues.

“I now don’t feel like I’m disappointing my partner or myself even when I don’t orgasm, we both just enjoy the sex and don’t fixate on the ‘orgasm goal’, this is when it most often actually does happen.”

This article originally appeared in The Sun and was republished with permission.

Henry Sapiecha

Published by Henry, on June 10th, 2018 at 10:49 am. Filled under: ORGASMS,SEX LESSONS,SEX PROBLEMS,SEX SERVICES,SEX THERAPISTS. Tags: , , , , | No Comments |