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HOW TO GET A MUTUAL ORGASM ‘WEGASM’ DURING SEX

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Any kind of orgasm is pretty awesome, but without a doubt, the pinnacle of peaking is the simultaneous Big O, or Wegasm, to borrow a term coined by the condom connoisseurs at Durex. Sex can be spectacular no matter who blasts off first, but there’s good reason to try for the somewhat elusive synchronized O: According to a recent study in The Journal of Sexual Medicine, concurrent climaxes during intercourse are associated with stronger relationships, more sizzling sex lives, and a happier outlook on life. “Plus, physically and emotionally, there may be a momentary loss of individual boundaries, a sense of truly becoming one with the other,” explains study author Stuart Brody, Ph.D.

A deeper understanding of how everything can click at once may be all you really need to experience a synced-up grand finale. But there’s no need to shoot for the moon every single time—even the occasional Wegasm will have you seeing stars.

Get a Head Start
If you expect to have an orgasm, you heighten the chances of it happening, according to research from the Sexual Psychophysiology Lab at the University of Texas at Austin. And this applies to the synchronized climax too. “Expectations play a huge role in sexual outcomes,” says Tierney Lorenz, a researcher and doctoral student at the university. “By paying attention to your erotic cues—the little things that turn you on, be it a song, a fragrance, a memory—in the hours before, you both can prep yourselves for an even more pleasurable time in bed.”

Sync Up: Start cueing each other before you get to the bedroom by flirting and connecting, says Rachel Abrams, M.D., coauthor of The Multi Orgasmic Couple. Hot-text each other at work to hatch sexy plots for later. Steal a few minutes to think about him during the day. “A woman’s orgasm begins in her head. Her thoughts and feelings of desire send signals to her hormones, which in turn increase blood flow to her vulva, making her more sensitive and ready for sex,” says Abrams. But once you’re ready to rumble, beware of mood-busting distractions that can kill your mutual mojo, like a buzzing BlackBerry or nagging body-confidence issues. Keep both sets of eyes on the shared coital prize.

Reach the Plateau
Most guys are good to go in just a matter of minutes.

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Published by Henry, on August 19th, 2014 at 6:51 am. Filled under: ORGASMS. Tags: , , | No Comments |

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